ANSWERS: 100
  • I have always said that if a girl hits a boy first she should expect one back in return.
  • generally no. but when it comes to certain life threating situations i guess it is. but other than that...no
  • Nope. Capture her hands so she can't. If you have to, bear-hug her so she can't hit and can't kick well. Hit? Nope. Nope. Nope.
  • Violence won't solve anything, whether it's a man or a women. However, if she was literally trying to kill you, that might be a different story. :/
  • it's not even ok for her to hit a man, 2 wrongs don't make a right, remember?
  • nope, never!.. she shouldn't hit him either.. violence solves nothing, it only makes more and more violence..
  • only a smack on the ass... but they usually like that if you do it right.
  • nah man, you'll end up on lifetime
  • I want to say no but I cant..I have to say it depends on the girl and if she can and is more than willing to do you some serious harm..If she means to take your head off at the shoulders..hit her back!! :)
  • didnt women want equal rights? if they hit you, hit em back just as hard, but not any harder..
  • Im a girl so its okay for me to say this......I think if you act like a man you get treated like a man
  • It's not ok for her to hit you so no.
  • I've met girls that could put me in a wheelchair. If one of these girls hit me, you bet your arse I'm fighting back.
  • I think anytime you're in fear of being seriously wounded you should defend yourself. That being said, I would say that you shouldn't hit a woman unless that's the case.
  • I have never been in a real fight either way, but anyone (man, woman, child, shit zu, what ever) who makes themselves a threat will be neutralised with what ever it takes. remember, far less stingrays than women under 100 lbs have killed men, and look at what happened to steve erwin. underestimate a threat (because it is a girl) and you will lose. a gentleman would never hit a lady... if she intends you harm, she is not a lady.
  • do you mean, is it socially acceptable? or is it okay in a serious situation? in that case, is your life in danger, or are you seriously injured?
  • Me having a son and a daughter that are 2 yrs apart in age I am and have been dealing with this issue with them because my daughter is the oldest and right now she can hit just as hard as my son. I have been teaching my son that he is not to hit a girl, no matter what, however..I know alot of women that can/will/do kick their boyfriends ass so I think it all depends on the situation and the girl. I don't agree with a girl hitting a guy either though. I think if you are in real danger of getting beat up you might have to:)
  • Yes but only if you hit back with a factor of X2. That way they quickly figure out that hitting hurts and they won't repeat the same mistake.
  • Only playfully
  • No never.:)
  • I was taught never to hit girls ... It's one of the nicest things my dad could have given me ... Now I am older and since I found art ... I have discovered a huge respect for all females and the importance there being presents in our lives and existance ... They are special ... to much so to beat. Don't upset her to the point she needs to express that much sorrow by lashing out at you. Thankyou ♥ the girls it would be a sad place without them :)
  • if she is trying to kill you by all means! yes
  • its okay, if it is done in jest.
  • If *ANYONE* attacks you (other than playfully or what have you), it's fair game in my opinion to fight back in self-defense. Other than self-defense or whatever, though, I don't think you should be hitting anyone, regardless of their gender. Just my opinion.
  • No. No. NO. IT'S NOT OK to hit a woman. The only way to fight a woman is with your hat. Put it on your head, and go.
  • no, but she shouldn't hit you, if she does be the bigger person walk away.
  • Depends what she hit you with and how hard. If she hit you hard enough to give you a black eye slap her (not as hard though), but if you deserved it... you can't hit her.
  • if its chyna
  • In certain cases... I think it is not only necessary, but merited... Some girls are heavy hitters and simply dont know when enough is enough. ***As for the video... Of course I disagree and certainly do NOT approve... But you gotta love good old 007 for his rather intense if not completely sociopathic convictions.
  • No, and it's not OK to hit a girl front either.
  • No... you are a man just stand there and take it!!!
  • That would be domestic violence. That shit is illegal. Why do you WANT to hit her? Bad morals.
  • if she hits you hit her back. just like if you hit a girl they should hit you back. i think boys and girls should be treated the same when it comes to defending yourself.
  • It depends on the circumstances. I detest violence to women or anyone else. However, there are certain exceptions to the rule. There are exceptions to the rule where the girl may indeed be stronger and certainly if she uses a weapon, you have a right to defend yourself. The question is if it is self defense or not. If for example she simply slaps you, you just walk away. If she picks up a bat or doubles her fist and continues to pound you at some point you do have a right to defend yourself. This playing the victim role stuff has got to stop and some common sense has to apply. If someone that is smaller and weaker is stupid enough to continue to attack someone bigger and stronger, then at some point self defense is acceptable.
  • No. Unless you`d like to go to jail and then become the beaten and abused woman.
  • i don't think id do it myself,unless it was really really called for, but i wouldnt look down on a man for doing it, if she wants to play boys games, she can play by boys rules.
  • Depends, is she hitting you with something? I think usually its best to just get out of the situation, if possible.
  • It's possible.
  • not unless it is a bladed object/knife/gun/heavy object or animal that she is hitting you with.
  • i do not think its ok to Hit at all. Unless your hitting a Nail with a hammer to hang a pretty pictre.
  • never....but she shouldn't hit either.
  • last resort, self defence only if theres no other way out.
  • no. if some girl is constantly hitting you or whatever then restrain her to stop her from attacking you, but only hit her if that is the absolute last resort. I am a marital artist and sometimes i have to spar women and that is something i will never get used to. its hard to hit a female, doesnt matter what age.
  • Negative.
  • Where I live, we don't hit girls. We love, respect, and honor girls, but we don't hit them. Each place is different I suppose. On the other hand, here girls don't hit boys. They love, respect, and honor them. I realize that it is hopelessly old fashion and we are dinosaurs in the great scheme of things. Me, and my kind, are rapidedly dying out and a new progressive advanced and superior code of social conduct is becoming more prevalent. This new code does not hold with my view.
  • no, on that note I would also like to make a point that no one should be hitting anyone.
  • no it is not ok to hit girls.if you hit a girl to hard you will be in jail.but that doesent give her the reosen to hit.
  • If it was an affectionate hit, then you can softly punch her back, I believe. If she hits you several times, restrain her. If she's trying to kill you or injure you I suppose that you can punch back.
  • never say never, only in a life or death situation or in competion - tae kwon do for example has girls compete against boys
  • only if lives were in immedate danger if you didn't but 99.9% of the time no
  • not hard.
  • Nah, wrestle with them
  • NONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONONO!
  • if she can hit like a man then the bitch can get beat like a man
  • Hmmm...If u r surely real gentleman then u shouldn't do that... But I understand that some girls also could getting horrible & scared (ex. there're many news about female rape male, like female teacher have rape a boy that just 11 in Thailand few weeks ago.) so maybe it depend on situations,I thinks. In this case (& if it's happend to my son)I would also let him fight back too...!? P.S. But I would like guys to be "good boy"& be kind for girls & of cause girls too :)!
  • That depends if the hitting is spanking or if it's punching.
  • As somewhat of a feminist, I must say other women are not doing me any favors by playing the victim role. The bottom line is violence is wrong on either side. If I hit a male, he has every right to hit me back. I work out a lot and can handle myself quite fine, so I am not fragile and weak. If I put myself in the place of a man, he has a right to defend himself. It is okay if she starts it, PERIOD.
  • Only in a self-defense situation. If you are in a disagreement and she hits you, no the real man would not strike back. If she is coming at you with something that can cause bodily harm, blast her with a left hook.
  • Umm. Most cases, no never... Like if a woman catches you cheating on her and she bitch slaps you, then nope. But, if she is throwing chairs, books, and lamps at you and cold clocks you, you may want to try to restrain her and call the cops. Women cant attack with the strength that men can (usually) and if you do hit them, then you will most likely get in trouble with the law. It may not be right, but it would probably happen. Its best never to hit a women unless you had no other possible option of defending yourself..
  • If she hits you, instinctly raise your fist to her chin, and caress it instead. Depends on the situation too. In selfdefense it's not okey either, there are much more effective ways of subuing an assailant.
  • peace and love ♥
  • Depends how much their hit hurt lol.
  • No..as a real man never hits a woman.
  • absolutely the only time a guy should ever hit a girl is if he is trying to restrain her because she has gone off the deep end and is trying to physically hurt someone or herself
  • Tit for tit. Smack the bitch.
  • It's better to hit her in the front. Fairs fair.
  • stop being a pussy and just hit her back and i was not being a slut i wear normal clothes that fit me okk so y dont u go pick on someone that cant beat ur ass
  • Firstly, If someone hits you playfully then you definitely do not strike back in a serious way. But if you are being struck by a person whos intention is to injure or seriously hurt. Then you use what force that is necessary to stop your assailant and to deter them from striking again. Secondly; there are quite a few women out there who are capable of seriously hurting someone, and if they are physical equal, then it is justified. Thirdly; when I see "its not ok to hit for anyone" is just a way to evade the question of what a man should do should he is abused and if he has been struck already.
  • if the girl came at you like a dude hit them back. I was raised you hit a guy expect to get hit back.
  • In self defense. I know people say you shouldn't hit women, but it's really not okay to hit anyone male or female. If she's trying to beat the crap out of you or kill you, that's when it is okay XD
  • if she is into that. but dont use the paddle to hard. . never hit anyone out of anger. . of course there are exceptions. but unless its a fight for your life, walk away. the damage you are capable of is not worth having to live with it. if you got a woman hitting you (not playfully) then by all means do what you need to do to make her stop. but, remember only what is nessecary. women are a rare and valuable resource. give a hoot. only you can prevent women beatings. recycle, dont just throw your gf out. give her to a buddy.
  • Never.
  • Not if you're a real man!
  • Legally speaking, she started it.
  • well im a female so i can yeah!!!!
  • if their trained in the art of killing in hand to hand combat, or shes trying to kill you on battlefield (cauz war doesn't descrimnate between gender) or if your having a friendly sparring match (as long as you don't hit hard.) OH OH OH you can however enjoy sexy wreastling XD
  • It's not okay to hit ANYONE back, unless it's in self-defense and/or you find yourself in a life and death situation. In that case, of course it is. This applies to hitting men back as well.
  • either restrain or retaliate by jabing her hard enough to send her a message that ur not gona take her down hard but ur not gona take it
  • Okay if she doesn't sue you!
  • if you're a girl yes, but if your a guy then absolutely NO.
  • No. Never in Hell. You don't hit a woman, no matter what.
  • No. The girls might slap you so hard on your face.
  • If you feel you are in danger yes I guess its ok.
  • No it's definitely not OK, and it's unnecessary. I've been slapped several times and I've never really had the desire to hit back, I actually kind of liked it.
  • I didn't believe in hitting a woman until I met a certain one. She had been married 7 times. One was in jail for hitting her and another was on probation for the same. If I had to defend a man who had hit her in court I would simply lock her in the jury room with a jury. Some people need to be hit. Repeatedly.
  • I've read all 88 answers and I find a complete difference of opinion between the young and the older and more thoughtful. I find it sad that the young believe violence is the way to end violence. Maybe with age and maturity, the young will rethink their beliefs; think more about getting along and less about winning. If you've got a girl that is hitting you, maybe you should walk away and find another. Doesn't sound like a good match to me.
  • There is NEVER a time to hit a girl and visa versa.
  • I cannot understand how some of you people can say it is never ok to hit a girl or woman back. Think about it for a minute. Im not talking about most of the time where a man is generally stronger than a woman. Or when it is in play or jest. Im talking about real self defence situations where your life is in terrible danger and you cannot get away. Like when she has you backed up with a knife. You cannot restrain her in a situation like that. You will get stabbed. Your only chance is to use your feet. If your son was in a situation like that, would you like to water his grave simply because the attacker has a vagina?
  • No it's just not right to hit a girl. But i don't like when girls use it against us...
  • Depends of girl...
  • This is one of those rules I never really understood. First off, let me exclude cases of self-defence, where I think gender has no say whatsoever, I'd take down a girl holding a gun in my face if I got the chance, no different from a guy; and cases of useless violence, wrong in ANY case. When I hit a guy(for fun and NOT violence or defence) theres nothing wrong, hell punch me back prolly, which is usually part of the reason for punching him in the first place. When I hit a girl it's exactly the same, only I adapt the amount of force I use to be less painfull(because she's prolly less used to it) and more in the order of what they can replicate. with girls and guys alike whether or not it would be fun to 'fight' is dependant on the personality ofcourse. I wouldn't hit random girls, or guys, for fun, only those I know, and who will fight back :P with her hitting me on the other hand, I see no reason whatsoever not to hit her back, unless it is rather a form of communication (which a slap usually is), in which case I'll focus on the message.
  • Only if your life is in imminent danger! Otherwise. . . . . .LEAVE!
  • It kind of depends on the situation.
  • No one should hit anyone but yeh its ok, i wouldnt want a guy to just take it if i decided to sock him one, thats not fair is it? just aslong as no real damage is caused :)
  • If she does it to hurt you, or as in: she's trying to maul you then it would be insane NOT to fight back. However under regular conditions it's best to never put your fist perpendicular to anything. >.>

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