ANSWERS: 32
  • The person who loves me, I can't bring myself to be happy at someone else's expense.
  • Ideally, they are one and the same person and I wouldn't have to choose. This is an opinion question, and I'm not saying any more. Apparently, my opinion about this is incorrect. *very confused*
  • aren't they the same?
  • life is short.You are wasting time. Get out there and find someone else to worry about.
  • Always love someone who loves you more
  • The person who loves me the most. Its so rare to find someone who loves me, I'm not going to let them go!
  • depends on what you're choosing them for??
  • i would chose the person i love, what if you don't love the person who loves you the most. I would feel really bad if i didn't return the affection to them.
  • Easy...they are the same person for me
  • "If equal affection cannot be, let the more loving be me". WH Auden
  • the person i love the most because hopefully they will be the person who loves me the most
  • "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with" - Crosby, Stills and Nash. Luckily for me, it's one and the same.
  • I was in this predicament once. I chose neither. First, it is difficult to live with someone that loves you so much yet you can not and are not returning that love to him. This can really hurt the otehr person and eventually cause a strain in the relationship. Second, I couldn't be with that person I really loved because he didn't love me in return and I couldn't live with that too long because it hurt me. To have a healthy relationship, it is important to have mutual love for one another. It doesn't matter who loves who more, but as long as there is love for each other, honesty, openness (in communication), and reciprocity, that is the best. These situations can be quite difficult sometimes because it is not balanced - you have one loving another without that other person returning your love. It can become a heartbreaking situation at the end or not if there is reciprocity that develops.
  • I feel that it's better to choose the person who loves you rather than the one that you love. However, every person out there views Love differently, so at least make sure that their idea of love is at least on the same page as what you view love to be.
  • I think I would choose the one who loves me the most. Hopefully they wouldn't smother me and I would develop feelings for them.
  • I think in the long run I'd be happier with the one who loved me most because they would do what they could to make me happy. I was married to a guy that I loved, but didn't really love me. A beautiful daughter is the only good thing to result from that. Luckily, I've found the one I love and the one who loves me most and have been the happiest I've ever been for the past soon to be 5 years.
  • the person who loves me the most because you could eventually love that person as much as the person that you love
  • The Person who loves me the Most!
  • Neither. Because both suck.
  • I would hope that they are the same person. I don't 'aim' my love someplace where it isn't wanted or returned and I don't think it's possible for someone to actually love me more than someone that I give my heart to.
  • one of my best friends loves me and i love another one of my best friends... I have chosen the one who loves me in the past but it always ends because i know that i will never like him the way he likes me and i feel guilty dating him t get over the guy i love. I would definitly choose the one who I love because if u really love them then u wouldnt feel right with anyone else!
  • The person who loves me the most, assuming I care enough for that person to enjoy my relationship with him.
  • I call it "settling." To have one w/o the other. I found it with one person ,,, reciprocated love. Stay friends when it is one sided. Get married when it is both.
  • If I didn't love the person who loved me the most, then I would choose neither. I would not stay with someone who didn't love me, nor stay with someone I don't love. We all deserve to be happy and loved. Keep looking.
  • I must be lucky because the two are one and the same!!
  • I would be lying if I said the person that loves me most. But I would feel so much guilt that my choice probably wouldn't hold out long unless I knew it was secure. :)
  • I would always choose the one I love. If I would choose the one who loved me the most, I would obviously not really love the person I love all that much, choosing security and safety and a feeling of being wanted over love and passion. I think codependent or needy people would choose the one who loved them the most.
  • erm they're the same person.... i hope, anyway lol
  • It's easier to love the one that love you, but making the one you love to love you is more interesting and life should be like that. So I choose the one I love.
  • Neither, because the first may not love me in the same measure,... and I may not love the later likewise. Tis better to wait and find harmony in an equal expression of love,... than to live in an emotional imbalance with either of those cited. Steve
  • the person i love is the person who loves me the most.
  • It ok cause i have none of the above anyway so i am not so worried about it.

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