ANSWERS: 30
  • Congrats! Its a good thing to be a virgin at your age!
  • No, goodness no, you haven't waited too much. Learning to say "No" to people when they want something from you when you'd really rather not give it up is a valuable lesson. And you seem to have learned it well. Good for you! You'll be ready when you're ready. Simple as that. Don't let anyone push your or cajole you into doing anything you don't want to do. It's about self-respect and... It's! your! body! And It's! your! life! Don't ever forget that.
  • It's definately not too young. You need to wait until you find the man you want to spend the rest of your life with and then marry 1st! I know that's not what most people would say in today's society but it's the way God intended. Stay true to God!
  • It's not a race! Hold on to it as long as you could. You wouldn't regret it.
  • no! of course not! It was never a contest nor a race to be pure. Being pure and virgin is the best gift you can give to your husband.It should be and its a proven fact.trust me.your guy will surely appreciate it.
  • I wouldn't worry about it until you get to at least 29. Most people are all talk and you shouldn't feel self-consious about it at all. It really isn't anyones business but your own. Enjoy life and don't focus on things like this. Definately don't force it or fall for a some line. Wait for someone you love that you would like to share this experience with.
  • GOOD FOR YOU! Too many kids "try" sex, only to become fathers or mothers before they are at ALL ready. (And many of THOSE were being "careful".) Don't rush into anything you don't want to. For that matter, even if you want to, don't rush into it. Find the RIGHT person for you. Date a while, at least, before "giving it up". And NO... 17 is NOT too young... I was 22, 31 years ago!
  • Just lose it whenever you feel it's appropriate. :P
  • No you're not too young, gee you have your whole life to loose it. Just don't give in to anyone for that reason. Let it be the right time with the right person. You'll know. Waiting too long would be like maybe 80:)
  • no, its not. Im waiting untill i get married.
  • it's actually commendable:)
  • Didn't realize you were a guy - sorry! I still think you should wait until you marry. As far as being an atheist - I think that's the 1st thing you need to get straightened out in your life. You may not care about God or His Word, the Bible, but I'm here to let you know that with your atheism you are a lost person and will spend the rest of eternity in hell with constant pain and agony because of turning from the God who created you. The decisions you make today will have everlasting effects on your life. Get a King James Bible and see what it has to say.
  • be proud of it if anything - religion and gender regardless give it to somebody worth waiting for in a marriage who will spend the rest of her life with you
  • I am inspired by you. I lost my virginity at age 14 in a grudge fuck. My then boyfriend wanted to take my virginity (a HUGE red flag as to the kind of person he really was), but we got into an argument and he pissed me off. I went to bed with one of his friends instead. NOT a proud way for one to lose their virginity! See - you could be like I was! Please don't give your virginity away until you meet a girl who is actually worth it. You deserve good memories, not stupid ones.
  • You can't wait enough. You shouldn't lose anything, for since you have your virginity, why would you want to lose it? I have my integrity, and I don't want to lose that.
  • Nope, your a very smart girl. And obviously dont look at what people your age do. which in this case is a good thing. you should do it when it suits you.
  • SO wait until you ready. being a 100% ready is what matters i'm 18 and still a virgin and very proud of it with a bf of 9 months
  • You cant wait to long for that. The longer you wait, the better.
  • I respect people who don;t have sex beyond/before marriage, and of course with the legal partner.
  • Funny thing is that I was on here a few years aasking the same question. You didn't wait too long because I just lost mine 3 moths ago and I am 19. Trust me just wait till you're ready.
  • It shouldn't be a race to lose your virginity. Being a 17 year old virgin doesn't mean anything bad.
  • No rush. You still got time. I didn't loose mine until I was 21. I'm happily married now at 29 and I've been with my wife since I was 23. Wait til you find the right girl. Sex is always nice, but it's better with the right person.
  • You are never too old to loose your virginity. You should be proud - you havent given it up when you werent ready. Wait for the right person.
  • You've got plenty of time
  • Save it for true love girl! 17 is still young! The day will come! Don't worry about it! I lost my Vcard when I was young and I thought I was ready and so grown up and now I look back and I'm like WHAT THE HECK WAS I THINKING! You don't want to do that! So, Wait wait wait!
  • You know losing your virginity at a young age causes a lot of problems... like for example.. insecurity. If you happen to do it with the wrong guy... and when I say wrong I mean: Unprepared guy with no job, still lives with mom and dad giving him everything.. and doesn't know the meaning about sweating his ass off is definitely going to be a slap in your face. Abstinence if the best thing.. to prevent diseases and pregnancy. If you do it and you suddenly realize your relationship was only sex...that will stay with you for the rest of your life. I honestly regret losing my virginity to someone who wasn't even worth my time... and I regret it because I got depressed when he left me, I had a lot of self-esteem issues and couldn't even be with another guy for quite some time with out feeling uncomfortable. That's why I wish you would wait until you got married... because nothing beats making love with someone you truly love.. than just having sex with someone that you think you love
  • The longer the better. Save if for your wedding night, you'll be tempted plenty of times, and yeah you'll get picked on by your friends. Don't let them pressure you, because in the end, your real friends are the ones that will respect you for that, and you'll have saved something for your future wife. Once you lose your virginity, you can't get it back.
  • Don't be in any hurry. Girls can only get pregnant once, you can knock up a different girl every hour on the hour. Save yourself some stress and keep it in your pants until you find the right girl.
  • VIRGINITY IS SPECIAL,BECAUSE YOU WANT THE FIRST TIME TO BE WITH SOMEONE YOU LOVE,AND WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH SO DON'T WASTE IT ON A SEXUAL URGE TO NOT BE A VIRGIN,BECAUSE IT'S A ONE TIME OFFER ONLY AND YOU CAN'T GO BACK ONCE YOU'VE DONE IT.
  • Many things which are lost should not be lost and what is more, cannot be again found. Relationships should not be about virginity and sex or even legal consent, but love, the pure, unadulterated kind.

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