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  • Some of us do. I personally think Queen Latifah is much more attractive than Paris Hilton. Don't put us all in the same category.
  • Because magazines and ad campaigns show women skinny and half naked with big boobs..
  • A lot do. Seriously, watch a little less MTV and a little more Channel five and Four, and you'll see what I mean! Personally, I think more volumtuous women are better looking, and many just have too poor self esteem to flaunt it.
  • Men are often visually driven when it comes to sexual desire. Obesity looks unhealthy and disgusting to many men. The problem is that many women take this to the extreme and become super thin, which is just as unhealthy and disgusting. The perfect women bodies are NOT skin and bone, they are well rounded, curvy. On average, I think it harder for an obese woman to find a male sexual partner than it is for an obese man to find a female sex partner.
  • Actually some men do like big women. You just have to find a man that does.
  • depends on the man, personally i like a woman that carries herself in the smarts department. If she happens to have a curvey or a toothpick doesn't really matter as long as she's comfy in her skin and likes to share.
  • I am a big woman and have been all my 52 years. I never had problems getting men, Heck I tewll everyine my husband and I are the perfect ten. He's the stick 1 and I am the round 10.
  • Big women may be a challenge to their manhood, if the man is not a tall person.
  • Hard to have sex with.
  • becasue men like to be on top and if they get on top of a fatty then they might sink in the woman's fat.....this is supposed to be funny
  • lots of them do.
  • It has already been said that many men like a rounder figure of a woman. Other men prefer women with a more petit figure. What hasn't yet been said is that there is a certain genetic imperative involved in our thinking. We know that women tend to prefer men who are more athletically built because these would have made better hunters in our distant past. Their genes would have been strong and helped to ensure survival of the species. The same thing works in reverse. The obese and the malnourished would be unattractive to our ancestors because they are much less likely to conceive. A woman ovulates best when she is carrying between 12% and 25% fat. This means that women with a bit of a figure, but not an extreme, would be more likely to conceive, and these were the sought-after females. Although society has pushed our views to an extent we still have this genetic imperative to find women in this "fat bracket" more attractive.
  • I personally love big women! My wife was slim when I met her, became big for a couple of years and then slimmed down. I love her just as much no matter what size she is, but I have told her (in a very nice way!) that I do sometimes miss the bigger her. She knows that a lot of the women I find sexually attractive (I would NEVER do anything, we just both talk about who we like) are what are normally refered to as BBW (Big Beautiful Women), people like Dawn French.
  • Ok let's get one thing straight, men are sh*t scared of women as it is, and you want to add size to the equation.....ARE YOU CRAZY!!!!!!
  • Because Flour prices are too high.
  • I see being overweight as something that leaks into aspects of a woman's character. If she can't take care of herself (meaning keeping yourself healthy, NOT necessarily attractive) then I can't really see her taking care of anyone else or having much initiative. It is hard for me to explain, but that's my best shot at it.
  • I know plenty of big women (my mom included) who have no problem finding a man to love them. By today's standards, I am considered to be big. A few years back I was thinner and didn't feel very good about myself. As hard as it may seem to believe, I feel sexier with some extra padding. I think for every pot there is a lid, you just have to find your complimentary partner.
  • I think men prefer a healthy looking woman to a to skinny one or too big. But there are exceptions to all the rules. I for one think all people are beatiful. Especially naked.
  • Men do like big women. Many are too concerned with how other people will react to them being with a big woman. More worried about their image than what is really important. I assure you, most guys who say that will say something different, one on one, behind closed doors.
  • Is it that you believe that men dont like you because you are a big girl? My sister is a big girl and i am the opposite, she has had more partners (sexually and relationship) than i have had. She is a beautiful woman inside and out, people see that and look beyond what is outside, if you have soul full eye then you will attract people no matter what. It is also how you see yourself because other people see you how you allow yourself to be shown
  • Personally, I like intelligence and attitude - looks is very very secondary.
  • In some countries bigger woman are wanted more than thinner woman, it really just all depends on what your culture portrays to be more beautiful. When I was around 14 years old a lot of people would make fun of me badly for being so skinny, and I would admire girls who were more voluptuous than I was at that age. I tried just about everything to gain weight, and then after I turned around 21 or 22 gaining weight seemed to not become a problem and I put on about 10 to 15 pounds. I thought I looked better, but then people started making fun of me for being a little heavier, so I just don't care that much anymore. If a man or anyone isn't going to like me for who I am inside, they're just not worth worrying about.
  • I think one needs to come up with a definition of big. So I will take it to mean obese To me an obese woman does two things that turn me off. First of all it indicates some sort of unbalance in her lifestlye and an apparent lack of dicipline. This isn't always true but its true often enough. Second of all it reminds me of my mother who is obese. I love my mother but I don't want a girl ANYTHING like her. I already have one mother I don't need two. That having been said though I should point out that someone with a few extra pounds doesn't bother me.
  • We don't? Oops!
  • Men do like big women, just not all men do. i think that being large is relative to the eyes of the beholder. I am a size sixteen and lots of guys notice me. I am very proportionate have nice large boobs and a big round ass. I work out, dress fashionably as I can afford, take care of my kids, have a 6'4" 200 lb athletic husband. I have everything a smaller woman can have plus more :)
  • Most men love bigger women or curvy, I wish more women had curves and hips. I am a male model and I refuse to date any female models who are thin because it just doesnt look healthy or atractive. Meat is for man and thats how it should be. So ladies, when you see them female models with their bones showing, trust me most men do not find that desirable, they are like that because alot of gay men run the show and want them to appear a more "boyish" look to them. Dont mean 2 offend anyone but it is true. Thank god skinny models are starting to be banned and that will give the world a breath of fresh air from seeing all these skeletal paris hilton type models hogging the show. Please women, accept your natural curves and trust me MOST men desire curvy, thickness, chubby and a nice big butt lol( i dont mean obese) and even almost all of my model friends agree. So please let us accept who you for who you are not how many pounds you can lose.....
  • a lot of men do just like a lot of woman like big men. just cause you have met a lot of men that don't dosnt mean every man dosnt
  • Nothings wrong with big girls! They keep me warm in the winter and give me shade in the summer!
  • I just saw a show recently where the men actually preferred big women. They said that they go on some web site specifically to meet big women.
  • Probably coz they scare them? :P I dunno.. I'm a big girl and it aint a bad thing.. more cushion for the pushin! ;)
  • Not all men dislike big women.
  • Queen did. They are men.
  • WHOEVER SAID THAT MUST BEEN DRINKING
  • They do, im a plus size model. never had a problem getting any type of man.......smile:)
  • Do you mean big as in fat or big bone? there is a difference.
  • I love big women. My current girlfriend is a big woman and I love her very much, curves and all.
  • Wrong. Ilove big women and im a small man!
  • Not all men..Depends on the man.. Personally I have dated chubby but sexy women.
  • I love big women, They are the best in bed.
  • Some men don't like women at all, don't just make big women feel bad, it's the whole of the female population thats the problem.
  • They're harder to flip in bed ;)
  • i think an honest loving partner with a kind heart whatever their size is a rare thing to find. I do agree that confidence is a must be proud of who you are. By the way i am a curvy lady and usually i get all the attention i need lol.
  • not from what I have seen , plenty of plus size ladies have loving partners and husbands who think the world of them
  • I have an Uncle who says, the bigger the better. So I think you have heard wrong, some men do like big women.
  • speak for yourself I love big girls. All 3 of my relationships were with big ladies.and the only reason I am not in any of them now is the first one cheated on me so I divorced her. The second one was a total mental case so I dumped her before she hurt me and the third one the best onbe of them all passed away a coupls of years ago.
  • Well i am not big but i gained weight as i got older, i weigh 139 pounds now and i am only 5'2' tall. The only good thing i got out of it is my breasts got bigger when i gained weight. I am not skinny or fat but i am not as thin as i was like back in my 20's. Some men still think i am sexy even if i am not as thin as i used to be. All guys have a different opinion about what is attractive.
  • there are plenty of men that like big women! some prefer them!
  • I prefer the term "women with exaggerated features." I think this is an excellent question that goes back to more basic questions of what is aesthetically pleasing. The Greeks talked about the Golden Mean in terms of geometry, and I believe there is a range of ideal female forms, just as there is with men. I am naturally attracted to balance. I may not date a lot of "women with exaggerated features", but I also don't have much interest in bean poles! There is a healthy balance. In terms of funtionality, I don't want to feel like I am going to break a person if I hug them, and likewise, I don't want to be broken by them! Finally, I would like to say that just because we don't ask you out as much doesn't mean we don't like you as people and friends. I don't know... How do you like it when somebody goes around yelling everywhere they go? That is how I feel around people of exaggerated features, just aesthetically instead of aurally.
  • I'm a big woman and I face discrimination everyday so men may like them, but they are in the closet about it. They may want to have sex with a big woman, but they want the trophy piece on their arm when they are out in public. I notice that every plus size woman may have a different story, but some may not have the same issue.
  • Some men do like big women.
  • Yes thats right, some men do like big girls. They specifically look for large women. Other men dont pay attention to that stuff. My neices and one of my daughters are all large girls and they dont have any trouble getting men, even the most popular guys. A great personality is the best trait, no matter what the size. There are some men who are just shallow. Maybe they dont like a woman based on size or looks.
  • Fashion changes. Plump used to be where it was at. See nude art from previous centuries.
  • Hey! That's a generalization and doesn't include me. I love big women. I love small women. I only ask they have excellent hygiene and a fresh scent.:-)
  • You base your question on a false premise. You phrase it as if ALL men disliked big women providing nothing to support the validity of your question. I could add another comment similar to the ones already posted, but I think it would be more insightful if you explained why you believe men don't like big women.
  • who says they don't? the bigger the cushion, the better the pushin'
  • I don't think that's accurate.
  • When I met my man, I had no idea that I had met his criterior by being voluptuous. Although I'm not considered "large" but rather full figured, I still had the urge to run to the gym and "tighten up" to be more desireable in his eyes. What a lovely surprise to find out that it was my curves (as well as other features) that initially caught his eye! I have been small, and in top physical condition, but I still had and always will have my curves and I love them! Thank God that someone else does too! By the way, I've never been a lonely girl because of a lack of men who liked women with meat on their bones!
  • I do fix myself up when I go out, but only to be ignored I am the outgoing one of my friends, but I'm always the "friend." I'm glad you have no problems, but not everyone has the same story some people are dealt different cards. With society saying people are bigger you would think people would show more tolerance, but it's not always like that, but maybe a change will come.
  • Men damn sure like me...I have to beat em off with sticks! Go big girls!
  • only if they're ticklish!!!
  • I really think that some men don't like big women not only because of their own insecurity and the women's self-esteem, but also because they might feel imbarressed to say they like big women. Truth be told it takes a real man to say I like big women. Also, I think that size shouldn't matter as long as the person is lovingm respectful and loyal. I think ththose qualities matter most than size. NAbia
  • I'm 18, am a curvy lady myself and have never had a problem getting gorgeous men! In fact, all my stick thin friends ask me how I do it! In truth, I don't like my size but it won't stop me being who I am, if people have a problem with me it's THEIR problem not mine. I do agree that confidence is a must, people should be proud of who they are and whats on the inside. The selfish few who do say nasty things are not worth the time of day. Ladies, hold all ten chins up and be proud!!
  • some men do.
  • They block out the sun.
  • good question. I'm a pretty big girl and I'm super tall! I have such trouble finding a guy who thinks I'm attractive. It really is a shame.. I'm a nice girl. :)
  • I'm not a chubby chaser but some of the sexyist, enjoyable, most loving women I've ever met were in in the serious plus sized catagory. Doesn't mean they don't come in all size and shapes.
  • Why should they? If women (and men) want to be liked/noticed, they should make themselves presentable in shape.
  • A lot of men LOVE bigger women. They find them softer and more pleasing to be with in bed. Who wants to be in bed with a bag of bones? It's much more pleasing to have soft roundness next to you and other ways. It's much nicer to be with a woman who is comfortable with her body and sexuality no matter what her size, than to be with someone only obsessed with being thin as a rail, losing sight of everything else. You should never group all people into one category. Each individual has different preferences and tastes.
  • Beauty directly relates to healthy reproductiveness. So the more beautiful a woman is, the healthier her baby will be. It's natures way of showing, "survival of the fittest." Men don't like big women because they don't take care of themselves. If they did take care of themselves they would realize that being big isn't healthy.
  • I question the accuracy of the assumption in your question. I have had good relationships with big women. It's what's on the inside that counts. Unfortunately we are often motivated intially by what we "see" - eye candy. Don't judge a book by it's cover is my motto.
  • Physical appearance is not all that concerns me about a woman, but it's still very important. I simply wouldn't want to date or marry a woman that I can't carry without struggling. Most women should know that men are much more visually oriented than women are. I want a girl who looks HOT.
  • Why should we expect them to when we don't even like our selfs?
  • Way back in the years, bigger women were more desirable due to the fact they were simply "big". This aspect contributed to the helpfulness of raising children. Thus, spreading the family name. I do not know much about the human body, for that is not a major of mine, however something about the cholesterol-based fat assists the child in the forming process. That's what I heard - I am not backing this random piece of information up. Lol. Vice versa, regrettably, males now are attracted to the skinnier females. I bet you anything it has something to do with media, broadcasting, and propoganda. :)
  • it all comes down to a man who is confident..Some guys are afraid of what their friends and other people think..those are what u call BITCH AZZ NIGGAZ..Then you have the ones who because they have no meat in their pants and the big girl just make it look smaller..(BE REAL GUYS)...Now for me, i just love women, especially when she carries herself like a queen,,, Thats what attracted me to the woman i'm seeing now,WOW, She walked in a party that i was at with my buddies and every man in there noticed,(they just wont addmit it).Lucky for me because they missed out on a beautiful woman.BIG UP all confident woman...
  • There is a stereotype that big women are dirty and smelly and dont take care of themselves,maybe true for some, but that can be true for some skinny women too.Dont put all people in the same category, U men out there u might be missing a great lady and not know it..Plus take it from me, there is nothing sweeter than a big thick girl.Why do u think there is so much divorce in hollywood ? The women have no meat to hold the men , not to mention all te pain ther'e in ....LOL..NUTHIN LIKE A FAT PUM...(if u can handle it )..LOL..
  • Big women are often thought of as rather repulsive gluttonous nags, but I think sir mix alot said it best, "I like big butts, and I cannot lie. You other brothers cannot deny". Big women usually have big butts, and they will almost always be the object of attention for at least a few guys just about anywhere you go.
  • Who said?
  • If u have a problem having sex with a big girl, its not her fault, u have nothin in ur pants...NOW THATS FUNNY..LOL
  • Because we are raised ina world were bieng big is not the norm ...im pretty young so maby i dont knowalot about it but in my generation this seems to be the reason
  • no clue, but chances are if they don't like me just because they think i'm fat, i won't like them because i think they're shallow assholes.
  • To the answerer,,u find it hard to have sex with a big girl because u have no meat in your pants..( not their fault).Stop embarrassing urself dude..LOL..
  • Why don't women like ugly men?
  • Shoemaker,,u r a WUSSSSSSSSS..LOL.
  • How big?
  • I know some men don't but I'm certainly not one of them. I know of quite a few other men who are very attracted to big women. When I consider the physical aspects, I'm most attracted to big, strong, healthy women. :)
  • I've known some men that only like big women so they weren't attracted to me... So not all men don't like big women!
  • alvaro, stop being a punk and do some push ups then u wont struggle..THIN DONT MEAN "HOT"..and to SLEUMAS,baby girl u need a new attitude, maybe ur negativity is shining through and thats why ur not getting any play.I dont care how good a woman looks if she's a bitch and have a bad attitude or insecure, i'm not going there, and i dont care if shes slim or big..
  • Because they make the bed funnel shaped and the man keeps rolling down the slope and lands on her and she starts bitching about hogging her side. I'm experienced.
  • Some do.
  • men usually like to feel manly, which size becomes a factor in. if i think the girl im with can wupp my ass, i wont feel very manly, and thus may be turned off. look for a bigger man, whatever your size try an go same or a little bigger man than you are, also big helps are power walking (losses wieght fast and is easy and free, half hour 3-4 times a day for a month should cut anywere from 10 -40 pounds depending on you) also try acting more feminine, which guys like (meaning act girly, if you already do_ go a little more, just don't overdo it) that will help if a girl has a cute personality some makup maybe( also try and have good personality: be funny, honest and shy, which can really tip the scale in your favor. and lastly, try doing yoga stretching at home, which may help with losing wieght AND fluent movement, (more gracefull) also, don't feel like your fat however much you wiegh try an keep it positive. stress can cause wieght gain AND overeating, also causeing more weight gain. so stay positive and try hard!! good luck
  • I am a big girl and a sexy one at that. I have no problems attracting men or women and they are always sexy :)
  • I agree with several comments about the attitude, how you present yourself...Girl get out there and represent yourself as a proud big woman. Show those men that you love you, you love men, and get on with it. I was big the first 29 years of my life then had a gastric bypass due to health issues, and now that I'm smaller, I'm more self conscious than what I was before. But I had plenty of lovin'. It is about the attitude and the way you show yourself to other people. It is all about body language, so if you look like your all pouty & depressed because you don't have any lovin, it's going to be perceived as you have no lovin for yourself, and as that one asked, how can you have someone like you if you don't like yourself, yeah, I concur. Start with yourself, maybe getting a man should be your 2nd thing to do, your first would be to find a way to love yourself, that way you can be open to someone lovin you back. I would want a woman with self confidence, pride in her appearance, and like the one said smell good. If there wasn't a man that wasn't married or wasn't gay that didn't like fat women, there would be ALOT of lonely hearts out there. But I know I have seen some heavy woman, not too pretty I might add, with some fine man, and be like how on Earth did she catch him. But it just goes to show there are men that aren't just after what's on the outside, and is looking to love what's on the inside. Because in the end that's all that matters anyhow. Besides, if a man is all caught up in looks, you wouldn't want him anyway, think about it. Me sexy before: Ill post the pics as soon as I get my account confirmed Me sexy after: I will honestly say that losing the weight did make me mre confident, but soooo much has changed. I would like to add too that maybe you could get in some chatrooms for your area. Get into one that is designated for BBW and men that love em. And even if you don't find a man in there, (not saying you should, but it could happen), you could talk to those women and them tell you some good hot spots that might be more favorable for what you are looking for, maybe certain clubs or bars, grocery store, church, I don't know. But they are out there, it's when you quit looking they normally find you instead.
  • I think some boys prefer big women because they arent afraid to be there self and they are proud to be the way they are.
  • It's funny, how I actually had to browse all the way to the end of the second page of answers to find something different from "I like big women" or "Actually, men do like big women". I don't find large women attractive, why? Of course, it's mostly a matter of taste - I've always preferred slim girls - but things such as the lifestyle and health habits of an obese person usually tend to be quite a turn-off, at least for me. It's hard to start analyzing why men wouldn't like big women, since it's not something with a single or even a couple of right answers.
  • I've found bigger women are much more sexually adventurous. ;)
  • I don't know. Some guys do though. I guess it's just a matter of taste really. Me personally, I'm not in to bigger girls. But I know some guys who are.
  • I often wondered that myself. Thanks guys for lifting my spirits! (being a big girl myself). It seems to me that women feel worse and more self conscious about our waistlines than our men do. I read an article just a little while ago that discussed what "turns a man on" and while physical beauty was listed as a turn on, so was intelligence and self confidence. Anybody out there agree? BTW, I love Queen Latifah. She is a beautiful woman.
  • It depends on the personality. I know some terrible thin bitches and some wonderful big ladies! And if you mean that men are less sexualy attracted to big women then again it's not true cause there are so many guys who are more attracted to fat women/-
  • There are beautiful women of all shapes and sizes... trust me, there are plenty of ugly-ass thin women out there, so THIN is NOT where it's all at. Just take care of your health and LOVE your body type, whether you're 4'10'' and skinny, or 5'10'' and all curves! I know guys who love skinny women, and plenty of guys who love voluptuous women. You'll find one you loves you for everything you've got, but only if you love yourself first. Oh yeah, and stop watching TV and looking at fashion mags. Mainstream corporate media wants you to believe that the average women shouldn't love herself. And that's not good for you or your self-esteem.
  • Im not even a man and Ive seen some sexy ass big women . This one girl Ellie ...If I was gay , Id go for her !

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