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  • When i see a black woman with a what man i think, "Thats nice to see, good for them" White men don't find black women as attractive as lets say, white, Latina or Asian. I am not sure why. I have heard a few men say that black women are masculine
  • because of stereotypical views of beauty initially. people are spoon fed the insipid view that beauty is white, with straight blonde hair, and blue eyes. what a sad rainbow of beauty with just one color.
  • I date a black man and I am white!! It's because most white men dont like women who have curvy figures. Black men like big butts and thighs. Alot of white guys want the skinny chics.
  • I see nothing wrong with black women/white men relationships. My sister is black, married to a white man, and has 3 kids together and I don't look down on them. I have black females cousins who are married to white men as well. They're becoming common where I live. I do see more bm/ww combinations. As a black guy, I find white girls attractive and if I have a wife someday, she would eb white.
  • I normally see black men with white women, so I don't know where your facts are coming from.
  • Who even notices anymore? People are people.
  • I actually thought a black man with a white woman WAS more common. What do I think? To each his own..What business is it of mine.. Is it any differnt than an Irish girl marrying an Italian man?
  • Well, it doesn't really bother me. Like American Idle said, "People are people."
  • As a white girl, I don't mind white men dating black women, which would leave more black men for me.
  • I see no problem with it... Was IN one before I met my wife. I've always wondered about why they are less common, too. I do see this changing, though. I'm a LOT less surprised to see a WM/BF together than I used to be. I've also noticed more BM/WF couples where the WF is relatively THIN - Used to be the BIG girls with the BMs. I also find that given a choice between a chubby WF and a chubby BF, I find the BF more attractive. That may be MY conditioning... Many of the movies and TV shows I saw growing up that HAD BFs in them, they were chubby to heavy and pretty or cute, where most of the WFs I saw were pretty thin in comparison, and the chubby WFs I saw were brash, like Mimi Bobeck (Drew Carey Show) or Roseanne. Some of the reticence may be because BFs are more vocal and unafraid to show emotions than many WFs seem to be. This may also be part of MY conditioning. Either way, I see it changing and more and more interratial (not JUST black & white) couples of all types around.
  • I was in one, then married her, there is the rub.We lived in the Caribean and when we went to resorts , the inherent arrogance/racism of some of the white guests both horrified and disgusted me.
  • I think its cool to see black women with white men, its not a big deal to me at all.
  • I think they are fine(I'm in one) I don't really know why they are not as common as a black male/white female relationships are. Its something my GF and I joke about how that makes us unique from almost every other relationship. Appearance can not be taken out fully but I think its more the persons themselves. Thats whats so wonderful we are all a little different and like different things.
  • Anonymous, Guess it depends on where you live, because it's very common here ,and I Don't think of them...And why should I? They are no different than me and you..What just because their of a different color I'm suppose to pass judgment? That ain't ever happin.
  • The reason why black women/white men relationships arent common is becos black women are scared of moving out of their comfort zone and they always care about what people would think of them. I have noticed that white women are very attractive and they know how to take care of themselves (eat well and exercise) but sorry to say black women (sometimes) do not take care of themselves. I have also noticed that black women tend to be "loud" and quarrelsome. I think if a black lady can take care of herself and always try to look good and decent and know how to carry herself in public alot of white men would be attracted to her. As far as am concerned black women/ white men relationships are the best.
  • It usually happens more in europe , white men in europe are much more open minded then white american men , the black women will always be looked down because of slavery.In europe if you are very dark black women and attractive you are a plus , i know many black women who are married to white european men.White europeans are not like white american men , they see beauty , not color .By the way a latinos and asians can be any race , they are many latinos who are of indian , white and black mixture and asian who are black and part black , so please do your research.I preffer european men , they are so hot , open minded , gorgeous , not ignorant , well educated , and don't worship whites as much as white americans.When you say white , please say white americans , because not every white person in these world thinks like a white american men.
  • Attraction just happens, but I think some people tend to look for their type - be it in their own race or otherwise. Here in London, there is a lot of interracial dating. I've had plenty of dates/relationships with asian and afro-european women (white male here). But there is sometimes the 'look' you get off some people in the uk which suggests they do not approve of her, or you making the choice to date interracially. I figured that one of the reason why Bw/Wm relationships are slightly less is because of history. Men are still dealing with feminism and their is an awful amount of gender rivalry. Couple this with the still active feeling of guilt with regards to white european history towards the african nations during the slave trading. It is a subject that people still think on and feel linked too. Unlike a civil war or political movement - even a century after most of the events our collective roles are literally in our skin. In effect you have white men aware of the event in gender and racial politics. White men could be feeling that if they are in a patriarchal society and approaching women with whom there have been terrible racial inequality in the not-so-distant past is doubly uncomfortable. That's just a theory of course. but I have been thinking on it a lot when dating black women and I get the look or occasionally the questions about it.
  • Just face it. White women want black men because they are supposed to have bigger sex organs. Some of them do it just to get their white boyfriends jealous.
  • I don't think it really matters, as long as two people are happy.
  • i think it nice but i tend to support bwwm more than i do bmww, because i have only seen about 4 bwwm relationships in my life and as being a bw, i have always liked white guys, even wanting to date interracially. I do not think it just because i have a loud voice but sometimes its very soft and gentle, i'm told and i don't think black women are "violent" some are just more direct than others and go for the things they want in life but anyways i have given up on dating interracially i don't think it can happen where i live, maybe it'll come soon or never but much love to the interracial relationships out there <(*_*^)
  • I think I speak for most American for your first question as don't care about who date who and don't know nor care why AB don't date as much as CD
  • Thats an easy one, black men have bigger feet :-P
  • i feel that god made us different for a reason and crossing races is aa sin in his eyes. if he wanted everyone to date then he would have made us the same
  • it has to do with attraction. many times (not all times- or even close) certain cultures are only attracted to their own culture. (example- a caucasian is only attracted to other caucasions) Without a certain extent of attraction, a relationship will probably fail. but there's nothing wrong with interacial relationships
  • how is this so hard to understand? black men have big dicks. white women want to get fucked by big black dicks. white men have smaller dicks than black men. therefore, white men are obsolete to white women. 1+1=2, simple as that.
  • I hooked up with a black girl on several occasions. I find black women incredibly attractive with wild personalities. Plus I love the pink centers. As to why black men/white women relationships are more common, I thought it was because most black men have bigger cocks.
  • doesnt bother me none. I love me some black p----
  • I'm a black female with a white male fiance. i have only dated one black man in my whole life. Its not because of any prejudice of my own race I just have more in common with white men than I do with black men. I like rock and alternative music and I grew up in the suburbs. I think it is less common because african americans are a very fixed race expecially the women. Most of us where raised to never date out of our race and to support our own culture. Many of my black girlfriend have told me they would never date out of their race because its just too strange and feel they don't share much in common with white men. I don't think its the white men not chosing it as much as it is the blk women.
  • WM/BW relationships are JUST as common as BM/WW. You just see the later in the media more because that same media, and our society as a whole, holds up white women as the standard of beauty. So, when a black man dates a white woman, if gets attention from the media because they can use it to re-enforces the very standard of beauty that they perpetuate. On the other hand, a white man with a black woman is a REJECTION of that very standard the media likes to perpetuate. Therefore, they largely ignore such relationships. I don't intend to put down or slam ANY relationship. This is jut my theory about why the MEDIA and society tends to overlook WM/BW relationships. I am not trying to theorize about the motivation behind such relationships from the participants.
  • The reason that they are not as common as black men with white women is that it's still not as socially acceptable. And this is among the black race. Black men don't want to see their women with a white guy. You get a lot of grief if you marry someone outside of your race if your a black woman. By the way, I'm white with a black son. Well at least society see's him as black. I just see him as my son.
  • i have no porblem with that at all. its pretty common here in new york.
  • because most black women aren't attracted to broke down fat white guys

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