ANSWERS: 88
  • It's your preference, so there's nothing wrong with that.
  • No, to each his own. Everyone is attracted to some thing different than others :)
  • Your choice is your choice
  • no not at all, white girls are very attractive, plus just asking this question, shows how interracial couple aren't a good thing, when race should not be a factor in anything
  • Gosh I would hope there isn't anything wrong with that - I only find men with brown eyes to be attractive.
  • Not at all everyone has a type some people are just more exclusive than others.
  • While there is nothing really 'wrong' in it, I would feel very badly if I could not find beauty within my own race or ethnicity.
  • There is nothing wrong with thinking the oppossite race is beautiful. We all have a choice in life. If that is the choice you want to make, then do not let anyone make you feel bad about it. If you choose to be with a white girl, then go for it because technically it is no one elese's business what you do. And I know some black women who are friends of mine, they do not like the fact that black men are with white women. They tell me that "we" need to stick with "our" men and leave theirs alone. lol..I am sorry, but if that isn't racist, i do not know what is. I have also heard from a black lady who im aquaintences with that if the black women treated their men right, they wouldn't be going for white women. I am not sure how much truth there is in that one. But to all his own.
  • That is just your preference it does not make any sense to fool your self thinking because you are black you must like your own "kind" cause you would end up hurting the black woman involved. As a black woman i have heard that some "brothers" have a preference for white women and they are called sell outs. But in the end of the day you must be true to your self.
  • No. I know a guy who is into amputees. To each their own.
  • Like what you like because you like it. Hell with everyone else!
  • Is there anything wrong with me because I'm a GAY man?
  • I prefer dark meat on chicken. Give me the thighs, to me breasts aren't juicy enough.
  • Nothing at all..I find men of darker complexions more attractive than white men..it's all about a preference..some prefer blondes some brunettes, some prefer boobs some prefer booty..it's all about what you like :) If God never intended for us to mix races we would not be able to have babies together thats how I think of it
  • No Way! Nothing wrong with that! No more than me liking long dark-haired ladies! (And no, for you Freud subscribers, its not like my mother! ) :D
  • Not at all, as far as I am concerned.
  • While I dont think there is something wrong with you, I have to agree with Taylor. I hope you would give any woman a chance instead of not date her because of color.
  • Of course not!! I am a white guy who is mostly attracted to Mexican women!! I would date from any race but LOVE the latinas!!
  • Nope, in fact thanks for eliminating some of the competition :P.
  • What appeals to us physically is neither 'right' nor 'wrong'! Nor does it always seem logical. It's simply what we find appealing. Whether it be tanned, smooth skinned, rugged & weathered freckles, no freckles, olive skin, tall, short, long hair, shaved head, facial hair, clean shaven, blonde, curly, straight etc etc and skin colour is just another physical feature among many that can attract or repel us. For example; I've never been physically drawn to .. say, large heavily hooded blue eyed men... I don't know why.. It makes no sense, and I couldn't give a rational explanation if I was asked. It just doesn't ring my bells! But hazel coloured squinty looking eyes, the type with barely any lid showing....mmmm!
  • No....some guys only like blondes or redheads. To each his own. Whatever you find attractive is OK, but bottom line is the person, not whether they are white, black or green
  • Whatever float your boat, or whatever bakes your muffins. (as my dad says.)
  • Ask a sista, bro ;)
  • Definately NOT, I am the opposite, I am white but only like black women with nice asses.
  • No it isn't do you. Be happy in life. And this is coming from a BlACK woman.
  • Nothing wrong at all. And whoever thinks so must be narrow minded. I know white girls that only date black guys, white guys that only date black girls. It shouldn't be anyone elses business who you're into but yours and the girl you're with. Me, I'm into tall guys with dark hair. I'll swoon real quick, ha.
  • There is absolutely nothing wrong socially nor mentaly. Just because you are a different skin colour, doesn't mean you are a different person. It's quite disgusting that someone can segregate someone else from their skin colour. Like someone previously mentioned, some people only like blondes, brunettes etc. There is nothing wrong with them, just like there is nothing wrong with you.
  • email me a photo and i will tell you how good your chances are with a white chick.... don't send naked ones... i know how huge your manhood must be
  • There's nothing *wrong* with it because you can't help who you're attracted to. However, I hate when people use the word 'only' when talking about attraction. I am sure there are some black, hispanic, etc girls that you find attractive as well. To be predominately attracted to white women is fine, unless you ask a black woman.
  • As a great afficianado of the opposite sex I find it somewhat unusual when someone gets hung up on a particular physical attribute. But wrong? In you case, I think not, you get a white girl and I get a shot at all those black women.
  • No man, I'm black and I find them attractive too. If I had a wife, she would most likely be white.
  • Since when is there anything wrong with a personal preference?
  • There's nothing wrong with finding women of other racial groups attractive. However, it isn't fair to ONLY find one group of people attractive while ruling out the rest as unattractive... Even if this means only being attracted to people of your own race. You should always keep an open mind, because that special someone could turn out to be of a race that you normally wouldn't go for. Physical attraction will only get you so far. It's up to you to grow past that and get to know people for who they really are, and not just for petty reasons like skin tone or hair color.
  • no problem what so ever. Infact the majority of us are attracted to our opposites which i believe is natures way of stopping too much inter-breeding.
  • Of course not, from grade 3-grade8 i had this thing where i only dated darker skinned people... my attraction is Asian guys... no idea why, but i find Asian guys SOOO attractive, and i don't think there's anything wrong with that... sooo.... answer is... no :)
  • It's just preference. Also, you could have been conditioned to like white girls. This might answer your question. Warning, it's pretty heart wrenching http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WG7U1QsUd1g
  • I just posted a question in this regard and some people are VERY touchy about it. I asked it 'cause lately all I see black men with are women who *aren't* black. I know that many people have preferences in pretty much everything in life, still, I couldn't help but ask. I agree that we should date whoever we want, that's the beauty of being free...If you have time (and inclination) please check out my question 'cause it seems you're not alone. It seems MANY black men are attracted to white girls primarily. At least thats what my environments lead me to believe lately. Of course, I KNOW that this doesn't apply to all black men. I just know that wherever I see black men lately, if they're accompanied by a lady, she's non-black. When I asked a question in this regard here on answerbag, I got some very emotional responses - from people who the question wasn't even directed to. My question was directed at someone like you. I personally don't think theres anything wrong with you. I just cant help wonder why you aren't attracted to black women/women who look like you. Do you find them ugly? And if you do find them ugly, how can you expect someone to find YOU beautiful? Thank you again in advance and take care :-)
  • Not at all. Opposites attract and all of that. I am of Indian descent but only go weak at the knees for young blonde guys. Each to their own as they say
  • i dont think so, cuz i only find white guys attractive. mind you it pisses some people, but i say ride on be free.
  • Not if you are in Canada!!!!
  • Nothing wrong with that at all. I am a white guy who loves Asian girls.
  • I say not at all. I am more attracted to blk men not that I wouldn't date other races if I found someone that I had chemistry with but so far it's not happened.
  • Of course there is nothing wrong with you! Its just your personal preference. Sometimes opposites attract. =]
  • No there is nothing wrongeveryone has a preference.
  • Not at all, you just have your own preferences. There are a few white guys that only dig black chicks. It's all about the eye of the beholder and what we like.
  • I know exactly where you comin from brotha, I'm a white gurl and i primarily like Black dudes. nothing wrong with it, no one should be forced to do anything they dont want to, so if you like white gurls then go for it, no one is going to stop you.
  • No, although i know u probably get alot of BS from the friends or family...well its just your thing..like we all have our "things" we find attractive.
  • Are you sure that you ONLY find white girls attractive? Not even Halle Berry, Beyonce, Alicia Keys, or Kerry Washington?
  • It depends on WHY you find white woman attractive. Theres nothing wrong with finding a white woman attractive, but finding a woman attractive BECUASE she's white ? ... thats Racism, plain and simple. What do white & black woman represent to you? what do white & black people mean to you? what does white & black mean to you ? Is it a power thing? Are you seeking affirmation from 'whites'? How close are you with your mother? ... my god, it's happened, i've turned into freud !
  • Not unless the major reason you find white girls attractive is simply because they're white. That's just as prejudiced as someone saying, "I don't date black girls because they're black."
  • Nop. Cuz Marlon Brando has been said to be very fond of Far-East Asiatic-exotic if it is the word- women types! Bless, Prof. Mes
  • No. There's something wrong with you for seeking evaluations from strangers about who you're attracted to. It YOUR relationship...who CARES what anyone thinks about it? YOU shouldn't.
  • i think it is just a preference, but there are soo many beautiful, different colors, sizes and shapes. if you are single, do not limit yourself.
  • im white and i am only attracted to white and native men. ive been accused of being racist but its just my preference. who cares, its what u like
  • Yes, but scientists are totally mystified as to what it is. : )
  • Is there something wrong with me just because my epic love of all time was a black guy??
  • It don't matter black or white your human ,their human Does it matter what color.
  • no its not a sin
  • No....You have your preferences and know what you like.
  • No. I know a lot of women of color who get offended by that very thing, but I don't see a problem with it myself. After all, you can't really help who you are attracted to. Who cares if they're a little lighter than you? Isn't everyone mixed somewhere down their line?
  • Omg! No way! People are aloud to love who they want. All these things this day and age are so horrid. Like obese people are seen as disgusting in some people's eyes and foreigners are automatically seen as terroists! It's stupid. Believe it what you want and love what you want.
  • Contradicting just about everybody else, I say yes, there is something wrong. Attractive women come in all creeds and colors. An open mind means to keep the doors open to all possibilities, within and outside our own ethnicity. If you live in a multi-cultural multi-ethnic society, chances are you'll be meeting interesting attractive women of different kinds, and getting stuck on any one kind means you have some sort of blinders. It's not uncommon for men who only date outside their own ethnicity to be on a of non-committal, "conquering" mood. Many men find they can shrug-off commitment easier when dating outside their group.
  • I think we should all just keep doin eachother until we are all one color!
  • My friend Jared would say you're a sellout, but I tell him the same thing all the time because he hangs with me;)
  • No, I wouldn't say that there is anything wrong with you. Everyone has their preferences and different things make people attractive to different people.
  • Absolutely not. Nothing is 'wrong' with you as long as you are happy. Screw what other people think! I actually know a lot of black men who only like white and spanish women. And it goes both ways, as a friend I used to have in college [who is black] is now married to a white man. Just live your life and be happy :]
  • Not at all, attraction isnt something we choice it just happens reguardless of skin colour gender or faith
  • All guys need to sow their wild oats, that normal. White women are more into helping virile Black guys experiment with the female body!!!! Its their charitable ethos.
  • I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with your only finding white girls attractive. De gustibus non est disputandum, after all. Without being in your head, I know nothing about you of course. But I have known black men who only dated or were attracted to whites because they were essentially self-hating blacks. Now there *would* be something wrong with that.
  • Yes you're a bit of a Shallow Hal.
  • no because im white and i love black girls, and i find that most black girls love white men
  • Nothing wrong with you because you're attracted to white women. I think the more important question is "Why are you not attracted to ANY black women"? Therein lies the answer...
  • My only issue is that I love to support those who love others that have been constantly derided by this American society. Those people such as Black females or Asian men who have, for some reason or another, not been considered as a valuable commodity as a potential life partner. I found the statistics in this Wikipedia article based on the US 2006 Census interesting; and, it makes me wonder if I want to raise my children (since I have the option of Turkey) in a mainstream America that seems to still be suffering the aftershock of Reconstruction? Here is the article: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marriage COME ON, PEOPLE, if we lived in an ideal society then we could think ideally, but you obviously feel like you have a psychological problem and you know you're not alone; maybe every person doesn't know; but I know that every Black or African American person at or above the age of 25 clearly knows and has experienced in some way the disgusting, dark side of race in this country, particularly against Black females (and vice versa). Therefore I support and deeply appreciate any man who loves Black women (or any woman who will consider dating an Asian man). Also, there's always another question that pops into my head when considering on whether or not I want to raise my children in American mainstream society or in America at all, and that is if you have a daugther who is pretty brown and you do not understand how society still treats brown to dark-skinned women, how will you help your daughters better understand and cope? (particularly in the dating/marrying field, as the statistics state we are the group that has the lowest rate of marriage especially among educated Black females).
  • Im a black guy and i love white girls i dont look at any other race dont know why its just the way we are cant change how you feel
  • I know this is a rare opinion, but as a black female, I actually don't think there is anything wrong with you. You are who you are and are entitled to your opinion. Honestly, that's like if a guy asking if finding other guys attractive is wrong or a girl only like biggers guys or something.
  • yeah..self hatin...and you probably arent that attractive..im just saying
  • 2nd Kings 5, Leviticus 13-15, and Numbers 12
  • Not something wrong as so much as why you are attractive just to white girls. Its a mental or psychological issue that I think you should seek counsel on. One's race should not be the only determinator for one's attraction.
  • Not in my opinion. I'm black and like all women. I don't have a preference. If a woman treats me like shit, I will boot her to the curb no matter what her race is.
  • heck no, as a white girl who is attracted to black guys I definately understand what your saying! I think opposites attract and its amazing when they do :) like who you want, no matter what they look like
  • No dude im thew same way its all shows and porn do u see any black people kissn no do u see any blacks in porn NO!!But unfortunlety u gotta face facts theres a 30% percent chance you'll be with a white girl.
  • If there is something "wrong" with you, for feeling the way you do, then there is something equally "wrong" with me, for being a white man who is attracted to black women.
  • No. Everyone graduates more towards one type I think. We all just develop our own preferences. Doesn't mean we don't step outside them, but preferences are natural and often have a lot to do with your own dating history or your upbringing. I like fair skinned blonde men. I LOVE them. I don't find white men with black or brown hair at all attractive. I don't find latin men with tanned skin attractive. But then I'm a vampire white redhead. Not all men find that attractive, but some men have a thing for redheads. In my case, my first love was blonde with blue eyes. Shaped my ideas of what is attractive to a large extent. Maybe something like that shaped your preferences, but it isn't wrong to have them.
  • No there's nothing wrong with you. I'm a white guy that finds black women most attractive. Many white guys think that's odd or have some kind of problem with it. I don't care what they think. And some only like the black chicks that look white. But not me-I like the ones with chocolate skin.
  • nothing is wrong with you man. Maybe you havent came across any attractive darker skinned people yet. It could happen.
  • No - that's like asking is there something wrong with you if you find blondes more attractive? Everybody has their preference.
  • Not just because of that.

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