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  • Some guys will accept u and some will reject u but u will be ok
  • Don't worry,You will be fine.I have allways felt it is most important to know who the person is on the inside and it is very true that love has no boundries.
  • Some people will accept you, some will not. Unfortunately many people are still narrow minded enough to think that skin color is an acceptable way to judge people. When you surround yourself with people who see beyond that, then things will work out for you. Peace.
  • It depends if you live in an all black neighborhood, how your family/friends feel about it. Personally I think it will be hard for you, around my school in downtown Chicago, Blacks date Blacks, Whites date whites, and Mexicans date Mexicans. I think it is difficult for most bi racial relationships to work because the person is trying to please their culture more than themselves. If I was interested in black/white/yellow men, I would date them regardless!!
  • THe white guys will accept you, I am a white guy married to a black woman, and there are a lot of white guys who like black women. More than you might think, and often they are afraid to approach the black women thinking they will not accept their approach very well, so don't be afraid to make the first move either. Good luck.
  • Not to worry girl. I have those same feelings about women that are not caucasion. I'm mostly attracted to asians though. Can't imagine why. I've seen alot of black girls and women and they are just elegant in beauty.
  • Love is colorblind - I have a wonderful extended "family" of beautiful biracial babies that love me. I have african american friends, white friends, love is love. Flirt and be yourself, don't judge yourself so hard - ignore race and you'll find love. And if he's white or black, thats just coincidence. :) Good luck.
  • In the long run, it should not be dependent on the color of a person's skin that you are concerned about. If race is that important to you, you might be in for more trouble than being accepted. A better reason for choosing who you want to date is how good of a friend he is, or how much you might have in common.
  • All anyone can ask is that they are accepted for themself. If the guy is the right one, he will do this; if not, you shouldn't care what he thinks.
  • Yes, I know a woman who is half african, half mexican and caucasian men love her!
  • Yes, just like any other race some will and some wont. Don't let it get you down, a lot of this depends on your location. While in the south i've sene black women with white and hispanic men it's socially more exceptable there to stay in your own race or with someone hispanic (if youre with a hispanic man down there, at least fromwhat I noticed, you were in your 20's or a teenager). But I've seen a few black women with white men, its not the rarest thing ever but the black women have a tendency to be very successful. Up north i've seen Black female and white male relationships more. And in California, well, seems like everyone is with everyone. Haha. But goodluck!
  • Your ethnicity is just one facet of who you are; you have so much more to you than skin color. You should remember attraction is a combination of personality and physical looks. You may find that you like white guys more than black or Asian or Hispanic, but it may be because of a certain personality trait that is more common among white men, or at least in your area anyways. So, will white guys accept you? It depends on whether they see you for you.
  • There are plenty of caucasian men that are into dating black women. If you're having trouble finding them, there are dating sites for specific interests. Seek those out. Don't be sad. Self-confidence is also a big turn on for men--so be proud of who you are.
  • Most will. Some won't. The ones that will not aren't worth your time anyway. Consider it a more efficient way of weeding out the losers.
  • Don't feel sad hun, I know you'll find that great guy you're looking for and whether he is black or white, as long as you two both like each other then the acceptance of others is really overrated.
  • Anyone who doesnt accept you is not worth knowing.
  • yes they will..the right one will.
  • I know exactly how you feel because i have been feeling the same way. I live in the south and i have dated a couple of black guys but my relationship never really blossomed into something more because most guys down here try to be thugs or try and cheat and lie all the damn time and i don't have time for all that but i really do like white guys alot more i just graduated from a school that was predominantly white and of course i had only a couple of white friends i talked to but it never progressed more than that even some things were written on the walls about black people or people would say things, sometimes you can just tell by the look on their face that they didn't like you. I just started college and there are so many cute white guys walking around and it's funny that the white guys talk to the black guys but not the girls? There was a black guy today that was talking to me and i was not in the least bit interested...Don't get me wrong i love all race i just prefer the other's more than black guys. I'm not very social but when i really get to know someone i can be fun, I'm also very shy talking to cute guys so how do i approach them? I don't know maybe it's just me but i just wanted you to know that you are not the only one feeling this way.
  • As long as you are a normal human being, are friendly and have true interest in them for them as a person but not as color, you'll be fine. Being black myself, I've had white guys interested in me...and black..and hispanic...and asian...and native american. Just be yourself, open, and if you fit the sterotype (rude,loud,ignorant,whatever...) you'll seem a bit unattractive/intimidating (for the wrong reasons though). Work on bettering yourself, becuase nothing is as sexy as an educated woman. I grew up around black women and white male couples, they happen quite often but arent talked about as much...so trust me they happen. But also, to warn you, some guys just like to "try out" girls/races liek they are trying flavors of icecreams...so pick your guy wisely (like you would with anyone). Dont think that because their white they'll be some kind of knight in shining armor)...Race shouldnt be the determining factor in where/who you find love with. Just find who is right for you, even if it takes a few years, it'll be worth it.
  • haha, I've been wondering the same thing as you, and i know for a fact, that they will except you, if you except them. and it is kinda hard for white men to date black girls, cause..they have to also be accepted by that girls family, which is kinda hard. but as long as you love him, and he knows that, then i think everything will go well. :) and yea, i know this...because, i have a bunch of white friends(boys) and they happen to like black girls, a lot more than what we think. but yea, i like latina boys A LOT. idk, why...but im very attracted to them. xD
  • If a white guy loves you, he will accept you.
  • I'm a black women and I'm the same way. i have dated nothing but white guys my whole life. I'm going to be honest sweetheart its not always easy. Most cases the guy you are with may adore you but as the relationsip progresses their can be issues with their families or friends. As long as the two of you love each other you can get through it but it can truly get hard sometimes. I just want you to know what your in for. Then there are the stares I live in the Suburbs in Texas. In my area there are no problems but soon as I go into the city (houston) we actually get some very mean looks and sadly they are mostly from other black people. It is more black men with white women but if they see a pretty black girl with a white man its offensive to them. White people tend to ignore you if they might have a problem with it ,its usually the old ones and they are more shocked than anything/ mostly the guy you are with will get the backwash from white people, my fiance gets alot of it from people he works with. Also if you intend to date interacially stay away from white guys with the "black girl fantasy". This is the white guy thats never dated a black girl usually comes from a prejudice or extremely taditional family and its all about sex, trust me stay clear of that.
  • I'm white and I would accepted you, even though I don't know who you are, but I like black girls.
  • Not all of them will accept you, but some definetly will.
  • you have to think of guys the way YOU think of guys... example: there are some guys that you like, some guys that you don't. lately you seem to like white guys you say. there are some white guys who also only tend to like asian/hispanic/white girls the same way YOU tend to like white guys these days. it goes both ways. some will like you, some won't. and btw, don't think that when someone does or doesn't like you, it's always based on race, because that isn't true it's funny to me how men & women think the other is such a mystery. Things such as "Why hasn't she called?" "Why is he treating me this way?" When these questions come up, just think of yourself. When you don't call someone, why is it? (usually cuz you don't care) Good luck!
  • Sure, some white guys prefer black women.
  • My bf is Irish and Czechoslovakian, and I am Black, Irish, and a mess of other things. He ONLY like girls with brown skin. A white girl would have to be REALLY stunning for him to choose over a brown girl. That's just his preference. There are a lot of white my that like black girls. It's nothing to worry about. If that's what you're after, I'm sure you'll land one.
  • Wow! I don't know where you live and it must be different from where I do, but I know quite a few white boys that seem to prefer black girls.
  • Girl do what your heart desires for sure. I danced at clubs with WM and the BM were like "awh you can't handle all that". Where do they get off saying stuff like that? For real I dated a WM before and have to tell you he put it on me like no other BM did before. Even though I did go off subject be true to yourself. Who cares what others think. "Opinions are like @$$ wholes everyone has one"! lol
  • well, i am a WHITE boy and i have a big infatuation with black girls! i dont know what it is about them, but if there was a sexy white girl and a sexy black girl to choose from, the black girl would win, EVERY TIME! =P so if there is other guys like me, (none of my friends are but im sure there is in other areas) im sure the white boys would be attracted to you.
  • im white i like black guys more then white boys i as well dont find them ugly just not as cute as the other race i feel like i have to compete with the black girls but i just get calld a wigger but one thing i do want to say it go get em

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