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  • "Bisexual" and "Lesbian" are subjective and loaded terms that really are meaningless. You are a woman and that is all. As a female you need a male to balance you but it need not have to be in terms of sex. Sounds as though you have bought in to negative societal images of men and have never had a good relationship with a man. Perhaps even fear them. What you decide to do in bed is very personal and a matter of feelings. So don't let it become politicized or separative because then you separate yourself from all your hopes and possibilities. When I was not much younger than you I thought I must really be a boy because I didn't look like the girls I knew and I rejected all 'girliness' out of hand. Later I learned that everything I felt inside were women's feelings no matter who I was with.

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