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  • Yes we used to chat frequently for a while on the former AB! She posted lots of pictures of herself which the men on here just ate up. OK not many of us looked like that. A lot of soul-searching but when she got into a promising relationship she stopped posting.
    • Beach_Niki
      I bet a lot of women ate those photos up too! I know I did! We had some great conversations. What did you guys talk about?
    • officegirl
      Hi. Not sure who you were on the former site. I was "Anonymous" for over six years. A friend who used to like to play with me and say things to get me up there was I guess doing it with her too and she mentioned some problems she was having in her life with self-esteem. So he thought maybe we could chat and I could help her. Which we did almost daily for a while. This maybe three or four years ago. We talked about how sex affected our feelings of self-worth. Her marriage had been to her "ideal" but then her husband started seeing other women and when she objected told her he had no intention of stopping. And in the resulting divorce he cast her as the villain which resulted in her losing their friends and her social standing. Which she was trying to deal with and which it seemed she was doing pretty well with one day at a time. I thought - this was from my point of view - that she had depended too much on her looks for self-esteem. Which in some respects would be natural. But I felt she needed to see herself as more than just good-looking and a mother. Which she seemed to understand - she was very nice and we talked about very intimate matters - but then just seemed not to want to do and my perception was that she just fell back on depending on looks. Posting all those pictures - which sometimes she did in answer to men's questions. I didn't think that was good for her. But no denying of course I was envious - but still those of us who never had those looks had to learn to develop other parts of our personality to make it in life. But she was very nice and I miss our chats. I knew her real name but can't remember now.
    • Beach_Niki
      I remember her real name and kids as well, won't spill because this is a public forum. We talked about all kinds of things, she was very weary of her ex. Although I don't get why he would cheat on her, she smart, funny, beautiful and very sexy. A total package. I guess some guys don't appreciate what they have. I know my son had a crush on her! We talked about intimate matters as wells, after awhile it became apparent that I was much more experienced then she was. It was like she was living through me, which I didn't mind at all. She was especially interested in all the sex hubby and I had, especially after I shared a pic of us, me i my thong bikini and him in his speedo! I love to share and the more we talked the more she shared. She was especially concerned about her daughter and the way she and society see her. My daughter is a little older then hers, so I was able to give her advice that she loved.
    • officegirl
      I don't think he respected her. And when he could no longer have things his way he reacted badly by trying to destroy her reputation because he is one of those people who has to always "win". She took too much for granted for too long. She didn't much talk about her kids perhaps because I don't have children of my own. I don't know - I guess I felt our chats were all too much just about her.
  • Maybe she is Rising after reviving her Creedence Clearwater.

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