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  • I don't know about the men, but I don't judge people on the color of their skin. I've known some REALLY good looking people of other races than I am. You're a human before you're black, and you're totally as good as any white girl (or anyone else, for that matter.)
  • I couldn't care less what colour a person may be. If I had been blind I wouldn't know anyway! Unfortunately I'm a bit old to date ladies now and my wife (who is a colour) wouldn't be too pleased either! Good luck anyway (and remember - it's the person that counts).
  • Since when don't white men like black women?
  • The nice thing about dating is that you won't (typically) wind up dating someone who is too myopic and racist to want to be with you. My question to you is, why are you wanting white men in particular? How about a kind, smart, funny *anyguy* of any color?
  • White guys dating black women is the new cool thing, at least in LA where I live. Your timing couldn't be better, RaeRae. Have fun and good luck!
  • I'd definitely date the right black woman just as I'd date the right white woman.
  • I don't think my wife would appreciate me dating you (seeing as we're married), but race/color is (should) be really meaningless. If you like someone, you should like them for them. Ask someone out, worse that can happen is you will find out they are a racist, and you know that you won't go out with them.
  • Why do you specifically want to date a white man? I'm just curious.
  • Isn't this a little bit of a racist question? You can't generalize all white people like that, or ANYONE for that matter. Some white guys won't want to date you, and that may or may not have to do with the color of your skin, and some may very well want to date you. But the same goes for black guys, asians, mexicans, so on and so forth. Just don't assume that because a white (or other) guy doesn't want to date you, it's because you're black.
  • If you look like Tyra Banks, yes. If you look like Star Jones, no. I know, shallow.
  • If I wasn't married and we met up, If there was something that clicked between us, Then you bet and if it went far enough I would even marry you. But I am happily married sorry.
  • Nothing against black women, but I am married!
  • Speaking purely for myself, I am quite certain that skin colour is simply not relevant. There are beautify black women as there are beautiful white women. There are nice black women as there are nice white women. It is the person that counts; skin is, most literally, superficial.
  • My girl friend going to be wife is African :-) Black is beautiful lol well at least she is beautiful in my eyes. If I met her as any race I would still have fallen in love with her. So dont question it, if you feel like you and someone click. See where that relationship might end up.
  • I am a white 47 yr old .. I just recently started a relationship with the most intellegent compassionate , loving woman I have ever met in my life . She is sexys , erotic and we almost fell in love immediatly ..She is 43 and black ..and yes I will spend the rest of my days with her .. This is my first interracial relationship ,,,and I consider myself the luckiest man alive to have found my true love . Some times you have to venture out of the familiar to find what we all are searching for .. So .,Yes ! I would have dated you ,but ,sorry ! I'm now spoken for ..
  • For me, a white guy, it doesn't have anything to do with race, I am simply not attracted to anything but white women. Some mixed women are attractive to me. I could however have a friendship with any woman regardless of race.
  • Yes I would but then I love Black Girls MMMMMMMMMMMMMM.
  • Some would, and some wouldn't. The ones who wouldn't aren't ones you want, anyway.
  • I've dated Asians, whites, blacks (I'm married to a black lady and i'm white), and Latinos. Go for it. You're going to find one.
  • no I wouln't date you but not because you are black but because you are an extremely physically attractive woman and I am just a geeky nerdy looking guy so unless you are a rare find I probably wouldn't be good enough to be your boyfriend sorry if I seem so pessamistic it's just that in my exce most beautiful women like you go for the hot macho sexy guys over the not so attractive geeky nerds
  • You mean women come is a different color than beautiful
  • No sorry, It is not acceptable with friends, familey, environment.
  • I can't remember the last white woman I dated - well ok I CAN, I just don't want to - haha. Yes, I would date you :)
  • If I had the opportunity I would however, our relationship would not last I'm afraid. My wife would force me to commit harikiri or do it for me. Of course, that would only happen if you in turn, would want to date me.
  • im white and personally i love black women an average black girl to any one esle is beautiful to me and a beautiful black girl to any one else is a godess to me. i just love black women so much its crazy, its like im obsessed with them. i guess im wierd that way but i didnt think many black girls liked white guys.but in all yes i would date you.
  • White men date ME all the time, so I can't imagine that they wouldn't date you too. ^_^ Try to avoid the guys who just date other-race girls because they think it's cool to do so, though. There are guys that do that. Strange but true. Find a guy (of whatever shade) who likes you because you're you. Skin and everything.
  • I date a girl because of who they are, how they make me feel and loads of other stuff, the colour of the skin is not even on the list :-)
  • I think that most white guys would date a black girl, it's just a question of personal interests. for instance, if I'm a gothic, blood drinking, vampire wannabee, then its hard to meet some hot chocolate who is willing to be a part of that! don't get me wrong, white guys are usually NOT creatures of the night. but they DO seem to have totally different interests than black women on almost every level whether its music or politics etc. etc. however, every now and then we see an interracial couple that really go good together.but lets not forget the social stigma that goes along with being with a black girl. If i walk into an all black area with my beautiful black girlfriend, then every brother in america is going try to kick my ass. I'M not afraid of that shit personally, but I'm sure a lot of other guys are. to answer your question, yes I would date you. theoretically.
  • I'd like to know more about your motivation for desiring to date white men. Is it solely because of the race? As a Black woman I would be (and have been in the past) offended by white men who wanted to date me out of "curiousity".
  • For me, personally, the skin color is not a plus or a minus ... I would blind date you once, just to see if we were compatible in any way ... from there it would all depend on how we felt about each other after our first meeting. You may click my avatar and read my profile for a brief hint of what I am like.
  • i've been married twice once to german woman(white) and to a black woman both were beautiful in my eyes. if a man cares about himself more than you dump him of any color. good white men don't care about your color
  • i dont know how to help you in that department but My sister dates a latino try going into colored races before you go straight white
  • In a heartbeat,although we may not measure up,according to legend.
  • Yes, simple. I'm white. As it happens I prefer black women to any other kind, that doesn't mean I like any black woman, "yella" women in particular, or whatever. I like very dark women, or lighter, mixed, etc, just of African descent. In general I just find them more attractive, mentally as much as physically. All women are pretty much the same: perverse, troublesome, emotionally unpredictable. I did not say INFERIOR to men, as in say less mature, not at all. Different, just very different. I have spent more time overall with white women but it so happens African women treated me more like a man than almost all of the white women I knew, so they get my vote. And God was kinder to them, physically speaking. I have nothing against white women, I just find far fewer of them sexually (or emotionally) attractive. Answer your question? I am a normal-looking white guy. Beware of guys who want chocolate sex toys to play with and momma to live with, is all.
  • the color of skin doesent matter i am latina medium skin and im glad.Trust me we are all beautiful no matter wath color we are and if some guys judge women for their color of skin then ignore them its just the color and thats all dosent make a different where all human beings...
  • hahahaa dis is 2 funni cos in my experience white guys luv dem some blak gals, but theres also the fear of rejection thing and the intimidation factor which may stop them approaching black women. when i go clubbing with my girls we get a drink and go straight to the dance floor to kill it because we know we can. not just the black guys but pretty much 90 percent of the white guys are watching with appreciation. black women have something different to offer any man.please not that i said different and not better.in no way am i insinuating that black women are better than white, but rather different. the guy am currently seeing has a preference for black women and when i asked him y this was he simply told me that we offer him something different, black women dont all look the same and are not striving to portray themselves like britney spears or girls aloud really, theres more variety to our looks and personality [his words not mine, and are not the oppinion of all white males] ofcourse theres the fact that he loves our curvier bodies, the way we move, our confidence our sttittude, he loves my culture but sorry hes mine hahaha. bt if you are really serious and interested in dating a white guy my advice is to give the man you are interested in as much encouragement as possible as most white guys believe black women dont date out of their race therefore dont wanna waste their time trying or dont wanna face rejection. my baby didnt need any encouragement but he has a lot of confidence and knows what he wants and goes straight for it, didnt leave me alone the night i met him, prior to him i'd dated majorly black guys [ a few white but nothing serious] hes definitely made me realise that the social and cultural barriers i believed where a big issue between white and black really arent an issue. he loves my culture, he even listens to some african music,loves african food snd respects our customs etc and i also embrace his culture and his ethnicity and love how he dresses proper preppy, love his family and their oppeness etc. dating isnt just about colour, its a mutual respect for one another and has to involve compatibility of minds interests and intellect otherwise all you are dating is a colour and not a person, this has been well long but i hope it has provided you and others with a bit more insight into the matter. my advice to people is to try new things you may believe its socially not acceptable by your friends, family / environment as some guy said but none of those people are dating the peron, you are the one therefore it is your decision and only yours. hahaha every race has its advantages, white guys more emotionally stable and comfortable, black women are very loving and intellectual and also have strong spirits. hahaha black men and white women also have their strong points but this aint about them is it? no so thats for another blog, lol
  • I am a white dude dying to date black girls. Such confidence and strength, so sexy. So hot. But all the black girls I see, there really isn't a chance to talk to them. All the black hang out in one place, and I have a military look so people think i'm racist or whatever.
  • No white men love asian women...no disrespect...stick with your black men...
  • Are you kidding!! My cousin is white (blue eyes, blond hair and he's whiter than me) and he is super attracted to black women!! I'm sure there are loads of guys who feel the same way. Everyone has individual tastes. I have a similar problem, I'm white but I really love mexican men and I wouldn't be happy with a white American man, and where I live I rarely see interracial couples, but a lot of Mexican guys have told me that every guy is an individual, and you can't generalize. En gustos se rompen generos (there's no limit to people's tastes), andale.
  • I have dated two African women, my current girlfriend is African and everything about our relationship is brilliant especially the bedroom for both of us. She took a while to get used to the white kissing thing and having white bits etc, however she tells me black males tend not to concern themselves about how much a woman enjoys lovemaking as much as a modern white person does and because of this I completely blow her mind, this is contrary to what she was told all through her upbringing where we are supposed to be useless in this dept, she wishes she had never gone black and made her forst boyfriend white. White men are used to white women in the main so they take a while to be so direct and straight talking as you need to be with a black woman. I would never go back to a white woman they in the main are not the quality of a good black woman, both in conversation, general living and certainly not in the loving dept. If I were you i would post an advert in a quality newspaper stating black women looking for white guy for a possible relationship..... That way you hopefully avoid someone just trying the experience. It works fantastically for us.
  • Yes. I feel, for some unknown reason, that Black woman don't like white guys so I have historically kept my feelings about some black woman i've known to myself for fear of rejection and that it was somehow 'wrong'. I realise that this is stereotyping both blacks and woman in one swoop. I've been naughty.
  • I'm very attracted to black women!
  • I'd have no problem dating a black woman. I don't know any guys that wouldn't date a black woman. My only concern is cultural differences, since I hate hip-hop and rap, which many black people identify strongly with, but that could happen with me dating a white woman who thought that Britney Spears was the height of musical expression. Now a black woman (or any other colour woman!) who'd be into hitting a jazz club or the symphony or theatre with me... that would be awesome. :)
  • Whether I would date you is not the question. Would YOU date ME?
  • I am a Black woman too and find that many White guys grin, stare, and flirt with me. It's quite cute. I have not tried the interracial thing yet, but some of them are quite attractive, very sweet, gentlemanly and want to take me out. After a few more weekends alone, I'm sure I'll get over my hesitation.
  • Listen you dont have to wory about white black or outherwise a man is a man and if he lets something so superficial as color stand in his way of something good he is just an idiot. I am a white man age 31 I was married to a black woman unfortunately the good lord took her from me prematurely we have 3 wonderfull boys together and it was the most wonderfull relationship of my life. I found that the opposite race almost always treats me beter and that is why I only date black women and yes I am by far more attracted to black women.Dont be affraid remember one mans trash is anouther mans treasure.
  • That is ridiculous. Actually I did a research paper once covering this topic historically. If they seem not to like you they are simply attempting to hide their attraction because of ridiculous social bias. I'm sure you will have no trouble finding a Caucasian man if you wish.
  • I can't really answer this question beyond saying that I'm not opposed in principle to dating black women and I think your suspicion about the dislike of black women is a massive overgeneralization.
  • Sorry to all the Ignorant (And to some of you really trully nice!!!) People who posted, but I have to go here in order to answer truthfully.)"Color-blindness" is an option that only exists for those for whom Color never has been and never will an obstacle. And the ramifications of your insinuation that "Race doesn't matter" are actually more damaging in this day and age than the Idiots in Hoods. Think of it this way: "Race doesn't matter" in France either, so, Gee what were all those Brown people upset for?? There's nothing wrong with only having White news anchors, for instance or with umemployement among Colege Graduates of Color being far above the national average. THAT has nothing to do with race! Ok, Thanks for listening. To answer the question: The truth is people become most racist when it comes to the taboo of sex, and even worse, when it comes to having a 'real' relationship. Actuallly, the bigger problem will be the covert racism and assumptions about Black women. Especially if you're attractive. In my experience, there are plenty of men of many races who want to 'date,' i.e. 'sleep with,' 'waste time' with me, but would never consider a long-term relationship with a Black woman (as a concept) or for whom I would be some sort of exception they're making, or who would carry alll their racism, in its MANY cloaks, into all our interactions. You've got to realize that some people WILL want to date you too, and just like in dating anyone else, it will be for all the wrong reasons. They're the ones to watch out for. A good rule of thumb is if they feel (especially if it's unprompted or comes up in a general discussion about race or racism) the need to explain how much they like Black people and how they came to feel that way and/or if you're the first Black woman they've dated long-term, get out of there fast! Also claims of "color-blindness" are a sign that they need an education, if nothing else. For instance, how will their "color-blindness" help you raise your bi-racial children??? Or combat their (or your)jackass relatives??? Duh!!!!!to all the angry ignorant people protesting this answer right now. And PLEASE STOP MISUSING THE WORD RACIST. Racism is a system of oppression, built on beliefs created by the need for White People to assuage their consciences against their brutal, inhumane enslavement of Blacks and other People of Color. Wondering if White People as whole or majority are racist has both historic and contmeporary basis in truth. Plenty of studies BY White People in plenty of research facilities, Goverment-sanctioned and Private, in THIS DECADE confirm it. If you don't believe it, look it up before you post in reply to my answer.Tim Wise is a good source to find other sources and so is a book called "Lies My Teacher Told Me." If you need someone White to substantiate my claims. Otherwise, there are even more sources to back up the obvious.
  • im a white male dating a black female, so of course i see nothing wrong with it and have no problems with it myself. but i know that there are plenty of white guys out there who know that color is only skin deep and personality is really what draws people in.
  • I guess my point is that is a lot more complicated than most people consider when you Start dating outside your race and not just b/c of "old fashioned" racism. I think what you might want to consider how supportive that other person is capable of being and your expectations of that relationship. A big problem in this kind of intimate relationship is that people who don't believe it's a problem (in their mind) can be completely blind and insensitive or when it becomes a problem (in Real life), only compounding your stress. And that like in any dating arena, unscrupulous or ignorant people will want to date you for the wrong reasons. "Curiosity, a.k.a."____ Fever" comes to mind. (Seriously, I just got called 'exotic' a few days ago, meaning "you're attractive AND of a different race (probably unidentifiable to this person) at the same time; I'm not sure what to do with that." And I don't even look Asian- it's usually Asian/Pacific-Island women who get that word in particular. So it's still out there. BTW, this was a perfectly nice, White young man, who just really doesn't know how to process race and how it relates to concepts of beauty. But embedded in the way he chose to "compliment" my looks was the concept of race. For those who aren't following, this is kind of like calling a Black man with 3 degrees in English 'articulate' with a tone of surprise in your voice. Maybe what I'm saying is less obvious b/c we don't necessarily go around Saying out loud the sexual stereotypes about Black women the way we still say them about Black or Asian men, so they've gone underground a bit.
  • I just wanna say that I think black women are very beautiful! If the white guys have any sense, they'll fall for them : P (In fact I think all women are beautiful in some way or the other - so ladies hold your head up high.. and men need to learn to look at the different ways women can be beautiful!)
  • I'm a white girl and feel attracted to black men. I'm sure that there's plenty of white men out there that like black women and one of them is yours. If that's what you want, go for it because you are worth your dreams =)
  • Well, I'm kinda married...
  • youve got it all wrong we love black women
  • My Older Male Friend Loves Him Some Chocolate!! ..So He Tells Everyone :D soo YES!
  • I'd date you anytime!!!!!! As hard as it is to tell from the tiny pic, it looks like you have nice, pouty, sensuous lips, which is a big turn on for me.....
  • sure would, for some reason a lot of my white friends dont like black girls, but i do, and their are plenty of white boys that do. i think black girls are very hot ,your color, your curves, so any time
  • well i can tell you that coming from a guy i could careless what race or skin color you are/have. If i like you i like you and thats that:P and personally being a white guy ive always been more attracted to black/asian/hispanic women :P Thats why im with my amazingly gorgeous and sexy and smart puerto rican girl ;) lol i love it :-D
  • Yes of there are loads of white guys that would date or even marry you. I dated a white guy once and the relationship was awesome. Am presently married to a black guy and I really regret not marrying the white guy and by the way am African. Follow your dreams and I wish you the best.
  • Go for it, girl. But if you're going to hit on a white man, make sure he's a Democrat.
  • I will if I haven't met my black girlfriend yet. I'm a white guy who finds black women attractive. That's just the way they are...
  • In my opinion most white men only date black women for their to satisfy their quriousity.I'll use me as an example- There's this white guy who I regard as a friend and is married to a white woman, but he is always pulling some pathetic stunts on me (it makes me sick)! And I know that it's only physical.
  • Its just a matter of luck, finding a guy who likes you for what you are. Keep in mind that a lot of things matter, like the way you act, the way you present yourself (clingy/cool/funny/sad), your voice, your manners, etc.
  • OPRAH?!? I didn't know you were on here!!!
  • I would date you without a second thought, but my wife would kill us both :D
  • you shouldn't let color limit your dating options... but honestly, through my own experience i find that most white guys prefer white women. as a woman of color i often find myself feeling invisible to white guys.it might be that they are intimidated by black women... most think it's ok to have black women who are friends but not girlfriends. that's just a shame bcuz women of color can do everything a white woman can, and more.... but let me tell something when you got your eyes close and your lips locked skincolor is completely irrelevant...don't hate, date...
  • Your skin color wouldn't make even the least bit of difference to me, but don't ask me to start liking rap music.
  • Your skin color wouldn't make even the least bit of difference to me, but don't ask me to start liking rap music.
  • i definitely would your gorgeous
  • I am a white man and yes I would date a black woman, but the real answer is what kind of person you are not your ethnic background and if some people do not like it that is their problem.
  • i definitely would, you are gorgeous.
  • I never dated a black women but I kissed a few. My wife, however objected but I don' think it was a racial thing. If you want to date someone you like from a different race, go ahead, but don't do it just because they're white (or whatever color). My youngest daughter dated a guy from the middle east, he was a little tan. She dropped him because he thought women could be bought and should be subservient. Race didn't enter the picture, culture did. How you treat people is much more important than color.
  • 2nd Kings 5, Leviticus 13-15, and Numbers 12
  • I work with alot of white people and yes, white guys. Since I work long hours and tend to be around them 24/7, I have developed an attraction to them. I would bet the same case would be if I worked with alot of Asians, etc. You tend to be attracted to what you are routinely exposed to esp. if your experiences with them are good. We are playful and flirt on the job but never really think anything of it. Once I was strongly attracted to this white guy and, I guess, through body language and playful flirting he figured it out. He asked me to hang out with him on our day off and I refused. Yeah. For some reason, displaying my attraction within the confines of the work environment was far more comfortable to me than the prospect of getting to know him outside of the walls of the office. O'well. He is soooo cute, though.
  • I'd be happy to date you, raerae. I've never attended Mardi Gras, so could you escort me around "Nawlins," at the next one? We can dine at Paul Prudhomme's restaurant on Bourbon Street, if you like. http://www.kpauls.com/site.php
  • Well I married so the answer is no. But I definetly did not base my dating habits on colour. Of course this was not popular where I lived in South Africa
  • You really can't always trust a white man's intention. Few of them are genuine but alot of them are not. They did rape us on the slave plantation and alot of those characteristics are evident today. White men tend to see us for sex and nothing more, and that's messed up. A lot of times they won't even bring black women to meet their families. A lot of times we are nothing but a dirty secret. Now I'm sure that's not what you want. You are a beautiful girl and if they truly want you, they will approach you. If not, don't cut yourself off from other races, you definitely deserve something better than a sex slave master.(white boy)
  • I'm white and would date a black woman. They're beautiful!---And I'm not talking about a chocolate sex toy. I'd treat her as good as I'd treat a white woman. And if she was the right one for me, I would marry her.
  • Most guys I know don't care what color a woman is, I feel the same way. I just like them, I like the way they feel, the way they talk, walk, smell....everything. Color is just another aspect. I have a vision of the future where everyone is just some shade of tan because all the races mixed together so racism is no longer an issue.
  • I am a single white guy living in Eastern Washington( the State), I do not look at what a person is but I look at who a person is, andf yes I would date you.
  • too right i'd date you, you're a real baby. i love all black women, tall or short, fat or thin, you're all gorgeous.
  • yes i`d date you in a flash your cute.
  • White men are not as open to dating black women because they are concerned of what their friends, families and society will think. They seem to be more into image than black men so that is why you don't see many white men with black women. A lot of them don't really know how to approach a black woman either because we are looked at as being too aggressive and sassy. But don't give up...if you like white men, hang out where they hang out at and be friendly to them. There are a few that will date us and not give a damn what others will think and those are the ones that are down to earth and cool.
  • i have dated black women and colour is not important it`s a question of chemistry i think it`s more import to find someone you love and forget the colour question. ok i`m white but if i was chinese or indian or african my personality would be the same. look for love.

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