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  • Are you talking of yourself,Znicest?If yes,it's your choice.I wish you all luck. .. If not,it's totally their choice.We can't draw lines in relationships based on skin color.
  • We actually discussed this in my sociology class but since I am not a black man I can not vouch for it's accuracy. Black men look at white girls as "goddesses" of some sort. Since it is still looked down upon by some people for different races to date each other the white girls are something of a novelty if you will. It's very hard for me to put into words. Also, I understand it but don't agree with it. I think people should date whoever they are attracted to and not have it questioned.
  • Why shouldn't they? My question as a white guy who thinks black women are hot is, why doesn't that open up opportunities for white guys to date black women?
  • i think it is also a question of where you grew up and with whom. As for my husband is black and i am white i asked him too why? and he said he has always fancied white girls more (physically), though he has dated black girls too. he did grow up in a more prodomentaly white area, so it could be of what was inprinted in his youth. though i do agree with Liz that a lot of black men will go out with a white girl, they prefer to settle/marry a black girl because of the old "tradition" of not mixing races. this does go for other races too though not just black men. but unfortunately you do hear more of them white girls being knocked up by a black man (this goes for the uk).
  • Perhaps for the same reason so many white women like to date black men. Relationship is two way street. Those black men wouldn't be dating those white women if those white women would've not wanted to be with those black men. And that's the way it works. The the same question can be similarly posed to those white women. I'm quite sure those black men didn't place a gun in their heads.
  • Same reason that a lot of white guys wanna date a black girl - 1) they're fine as hell and 2) opposites attract oh and another eason is that black girls have the best personality etc and know just what they want and how to treat a guy ;)
  • Because they're not as prone to asking duplicate questions.
  • this isn't my answer but a friend...he says he dates white women because....you don't have to ask the to do things twice, less of an attitude problem and alot of them have a large bank account or they daddy's do!!!! But im guessing he is going on his relationship with his x wife(who was black)
  • because so many of them were raised without fathers and by Dominant black mothers.these mothers most definitely CASTRATE their sons, they are definitely mamas babies, but they are definitely kicked out at age 18 if not earlier to fend for themselves... they tend to look more for one to take care of them ,as their mothers did... white women gravitate to them more ,they are put on pedestals by the men and of a non conforming nature(like attention of being different, out of the norm). the white women then tend to take care of them,to be kept in this way... these men (and not all ) do not want one as dominant as the mother was...just a mother but not so dominate....the women thrive on this pedestal and attention from society and the man.... but, when the women grow up to realize it themselves....it has gotten old, they get sick of doing everything for them , being the stable income and security provider, their night life habits, their player habits, their non contribution toward teaching and discipline(sports & video games they got down,just nothing aside from them), & putting up with the kids and the mothers of these kids that he brought to the marriage..... I see it all around, 3 family's here ,everyday, its the same with each woman...Its been 14,13, 11 yrs...and all the same!!!! 1 finally got out ...she has a daughter...the dad is a good dad....but was a bad husband and provider...as the other two ,still are... i do want to add, it is getting more where i see this of white boys now, women too are having sons without fathers...by women who want it that way ...i find from these mothers(white and black) 3 reasons which they give. 2 of them without any shame or care for their childs welfare .just themselves .1) is they don't want a father for them,just them 2) and they admit this with no shame about it.."if they didn't want me,they sure wasn't gonna see the boy!!!" 3) can't find a husband or father .... i have all tell me these things themselves...but the ones who gave the number 2 answer were all black and adamant and downright the most selfish and ignorant to a childs needs,in my view!!! all these attitudes are by selfish ,parents,ME<ME<ME...these kids are for own selfish reasons and harmed tremendously in their rearing.... thsi is my views and experiances ....
  • OK I HAVE BEEN WITH A BLACK MAN FOR 3 YEARS AND I AM WHITE I WAS RAISED IN THE COUNTRY AND WAS TOLD THAT U JUST DIDNT DO THAT BUT I WAS ATTRACTED TO BLACK MEN EVEN IN THE 3RD GRADE AND AGIAN IN THE 5TH GRADE IM 34 YEARS OLD I WAS MARRIED TO A WHITE MAN HAD THREE KIDS AND JUST STARTED TO DATE A BLACK MAN AND TO ME WE ARE THE SAME COLOR ITS NOT A ISSUE IN MY HOUSE BUT MY FAMILY WONT EXCEPT IT AT ALL BUT I FIGURE THAT HE IS A PART OF ME AND IF THEY CANT EXCEPT IT THEN THEY DONT EXCEPT ME NOW AS FAR AS WHY MY MAN HAS BEE WITH HIS SHARE OF BLACK GIRLS MARRIED TO ONE FOR 4 YEARS AND HE SAYS BECUSE THEY ARE GRUMPY HARD TO GET ALONG WITH THEY DONT LISTEN AND WHITE GIRLS ARE A LITTLE EASIER TO LIVE WITH
  • Why do so many white men want to date white women of white men want to date black women...
  • Maybe cause white women well most of them aint as ghetto as black woman..... most off of them have attitude problems... and think they are the shisnett,,
  • I got a list.......... Top 3............ 1)Subservient ie; Doormat syndrome. 2)Gullible ie; The way it is speech. 3)Tolerant ie: His bad behavior. I am white and that is what I have experienced.
  • the same reasons any one else dates outside their race.
  • Because they can do WHATEVER THEY WANT and not pay for it..Black men never want to take responsibility for their actions....It's always someone else fault..NEVER THEIRS..and black women are realizing this and moving on to white men..and other races...so black men have no choice NO WOMAN with a brain wants the typical black man.they go to white women making themselves look like the victim but if you go into their past you will see that they were lieing cheating no good dogs, but put on a front in front of white women..puhlease they can have them
  • Hey Beatwhatever you wanna call your self, I am just giving my personal opinion, so you hush if the shoe fits wear it.. how about that..
  • my last response ...because my feelings are my own reasonings...as I am involved with 3 interracial marriages....i have a black single friend, raising 3 of the best I have ever seen,ALONE>>>they are top students,athletes,and have respect for their dad and all others..he work his job full time and his other job full time....we all have the upmost respect...he jokingly calls me mama...but my black son in law DESPISES him..but won't let him know that..but he accuses my daughter cause he has a huge green eyed monster thing.....enough of this.... my whole point is ,race does not and never has been the issue!!! culture is...they are different.raised different.even our friend ...they are of a different culture attitude, like Japanese mixing Chinese,Jew with an atheist, it is different and the mixings CAUSE LOTS OF ISSUES,especially with the children of some....my daughter says, "I am not trying to raise a black or white,just a decent responsible human being!" her husband has the race problem...."HE is black" is want he just keeps pounding away at...we let my grandson know none of this,he has never had a problem with his heritage,from his white or black family memebers.....its just the black side has never been in his life as all the white have...he really does not know them much,has no problem with this ,as he has had all love he needs ....but it is the issues his dad has with being white,never would of saw this coming,since he turned 9,11 now, it has just become a BIG PROBLEM for HIM....he hasn't been hands on much and now hes growing up and away,his conscience is blaming anything and everything,for his faults as a dad......he has never taken responsibility for himself as a person...and this is the problem with the other two,their white wives are the sole ,solid rock and support...of kids and husbands.....they just seem to be of a totally different culture....cause even the friend ,even though perfect dad, has their same traits,just more responsible for himself and family,but he was raised by mother and dad.......stabler...its not race,they are just different,and can be a big unstable rift for families...it is for all 3 here...... the white do like the "pedestal" part, but the responsibilities are very heavy ,for all 3, alone...it is gotten quite old, and they have gotten weary and tired...regretting the big baby responsibilty.... the white do have a "not of the norm"type personality, with wanting to stand out and attention,LOOK AT ME,I take care of my man...well ,they are seeing they are tired of it,work and kids are enough.... they are different in culture..... i'm done....its hard enough,now that these are realizing the burden they have taken on..this is serious and no joking matter....i can only say, when she chose him, i saw no problem,she could of chosen a white,drunk and wife beater, but this man does nothing like that,has no excuse for irresponsible ,except he is limited very much as a husband and father role model,as the other 2 are.....:)justme
  • I have noooooooooo idea
  • cause white meat is tasty?
  • because love is colorblind!!
  • From what I've heard many black men say, white women are less "gossipy" than black women.
  • I have no idea, but im seein alot of it nowadays
  • The problem is that we have to even ask this question. This isn't the 50s, we aren't segregated by racial cliques anymore. People ask this question as if it's illegal to do anything outside your race. "Why do black people play soccer with white people?" Love is love, attraction is attraction. The question that should be being asked is "Why do old men like to date 12 year olds?" That is something to cause alarm.
  • cuz the white chicks compliment them BIG time bout their cock size. Howeva its a MYTH - Ive fucked loads of em n am still in search!
  • I'm a black woman raised in african american culture so I know black women and black men and I will be honest with my answer. Some of you are sightly right and some of you... I worry about you having children and spreading such ignorance in the world. The first reason why black men date white women is due to history. Slave masters where very familiar with bedding black women but black men could not even bed there own women with out permission. Because white women where untouchable to black men it glorified the experience. Things are very different now since then but the glorification of the white woman for the black man still lives on. The second reason,( although I hate to admit this), not all but most black women due to culture are more aggressive than white women are. I am not at all aggressive but sadly its just true for black women. This is not necessarily a bad thing our history has made us strong and our relationships with our own men have too. It's no secret that static show that a high percentage of black men are not the best fathers or function well in society, so in a lot of ways what do you really expect of black women. However there are cases when the attitudes are toooo much and it gets out of hand. Most white women not all are much more recessive with men and tend to be a support system. However black men are very dominating figures and take this for granted, some even stating themselves that white women are weaker. I don't believe that goodness of any kind should be taken for granted. So there is your answer.
  • Why does it matter? I am a white woman married to a black man. He (and my other black male friends) do not just like white women. Its just about the personalities clicking.
  • Hey Beautdumbass It seems the shoe do fit since you making a big deal... hahahah is funny
  • well lets see. compare white women to black. white women have less bad attitude, more good attitude, conduct themsleves better, actually work for a living, and compare looks... no contest. I totally agree with you (Capitaljay) some dumb ignorant people cant handle the truth.. like Beautidumbass...
  • because they can
  • they treat u better then a sister or they listen ok
  • Most of my siblings are 1/2 black. what can I say? my mom's been married so many times I cant keep track. Only 2 or 3 of those men were white and the rest were black. It was my white mom who chased her husbands both black and white, not the other way around.
  • because white women are sometimes more attracktive trust me i just dumped my old boyfriend hes black
  • It's Personal Choice who you like and who u wanna date but the reason maybe different though . But the important thing is finding the true love ,then it is in the race or outside the race does'nt matters. Yes .Yes , black men date white women b'cos women allow them to date , i am indian and my experience max. of time the white women dont even prefer indian men at all :(
  • Porn could be an influence
  • This is a theory but perhaps most black men like white women because they are more cheerful,happy,and positive most of them not all. Black women on the other hand get angry,curse you out with no problem,and will most likely turn violent on you if you say the wrong thing. Thats not to say some white women try to be like black women in characteristics. White women are also more open to what you want and say. Most black women from what I've seen only see things their way and perspective. And if you don't see it their way its the highway for the man. Or perhaps in a short basic answer white women may be easier to get along with than other types of women.
  • Because white women typically aren't as bitter... typically
  • I believe it's a statis symbol.
  • I never said I was looking for praise or anything of that sort just because I am a white female. I was simply giving an answer to the question that was asked with a reference of something that was taught to me in a class where the instructor was... a black man. Also, I never said I agreed with it.
  • I asked this to a black girl i work with. Her response was white women are easier to control.
  • Coz they too got a heart!
  • I think it's because white women like to date black guys. And, looking at white women, who would say no?
  • coz black women are so damn phasty!!!! they walk around hating on white and mixed race women as they are defo more prettier. dont hate appreciate!!! coz all there doin is driving there black men away so they go with white women and then gawjus mixed race offsprings are made like me. im mixed race( quarter caste) and in my experience i always have problems with black girls!!! they dont even no me from adam and still h8!!!!! JELOUSY IS A WASTED EMOTION!!!!!!! THINK THEY JUST WANT MY HAIR AS THEY HAVENT GOT NE!!!!!!!!!
  • 2nd Kings 5, Leviticus 13-15, and Numbers 12
  • they need a white mama to take care of them...the black mama is done and a black woman won't support and take care of them and not control them like their mama did...a white woman wants control and will support...so, there ya go, they need a woman to take care of them,but not control..the white and black tend to put each on pedastals...its really self serving of each...Justme:) but quite damamging to their offspring that pay for their character flaws...its not race as much as what they need to be different and revered or just no decent white boy would have and need a mama to take care of and be "idolized" by peers and made out to be a man...which they are not ,just still,baby males...:justme
  • The reasons are many and varied...just as for any other. But I tend to think it mostly boils down to the same reasons men date ANY woman: BECAUSE THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO THEM! Might be for physical beauty, might be for personality, might be the exotic allure of dating outside one's race, might be any of a dozen or more reasons. Why read more into it than there is?
  • i think its a mutual attraction but i think black men like white women because they are more opposite of a black women they are less aggressive they are quiet and they are not in our business like a sister would be lol they are a complete opposite of a black men i know cause my girlfriend is white
  • They are sexy
  • Well if every black men that like women turned down Rihanna and Beyonce it must be something in the water! altho i think this question is kind of stereotypical for you to say so but everyone to there own! LOL x x x
  • WHERE IS MY BUD SAMUEL JACKSON I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR HIS ANSWER
  • Attraction to each other.
  • Probably for the same reasons white men date black women? I smell a set up!
  • The same reason why some white men like to date dark women; attraction towards a different skin tone.
  • It's probably been said here before, but "Opposites Attract," so "black attracting white" would not be all that surprising, right?
  • You find that ethnic people tend to like white people especially ones with blonde hair and blue eyes because this is never seen in their native countries so these people stand out to them.
  • Probably for the same reason that so many white men, wish to date black women: "Opposites Attract."
  • I really don't know, same reasons as people of any race date outside of it (or within it), attraction - I do see more black men with white women than white men with black women though. As a white woman I have more black men approach me than white... that's just the way it goes.
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  • Why shouldn't a black man date a white woman? I'd date a woman of any race if I found her attractive.
  • check blackwhiteconnect.com _ Best free interracial dating site in the world. u will find ur answer.
  • I am a white woman in a relationship with a black man and to be honest with you...I never asked that question because I dont look at race. If you read the bible, it never refers to color of ythe skin. Yes they were jews but there are all different color jews. My boyfriend happends to be a black jew named Mordecai (from the bible). The bible never once says anything about skin color. We get looks all the time especially from black woman. Most uneducated black cant stand to see a white woman with a black man. I think that is just completly racist and ignorant. We are all the same inside despite the color of our skin. Im not one of those white chicks that only date black men either. I am 32 and this is the first one I have had a relationship with. But I never think about the color of his skin until the ignorant outside world reminds me how stupid and shallow people really are.
  • are you sure its so many? or is it a generalization? how often do you take this into notice? does it matter? what if its the other way around?
  • To spite whitey.Is that the answer you were looking for? People should date who they want regardless of race,religion,creed etc.
  • because most of the women are bimbos
  • maybe cause their more attractive?..i dunno..hard question
  • It is a status symbol that shows "they made it" in life. Growing up in Memphis, that is what the answer of some of my black friends that I have asked.
  • My fiance is black and I am white when we first started dating I asked him why a lot of black guys perfer to date white women and he said because black women are too ghetto. Those are his words, he also went into say that black women are quick to anger and are real fighty. Once again his words. I took that answer as the best one I could get.
  • Probably because white women are better in bed (trust me, I've got plenty of experience on both sides,) and because they are, generally speaking, more submissive.
  • An attractive woman is an attractive woman, no matter what race she is.
  • The INFAMOUS ARTICLE THAT EXPLAINS IT ALL!!!! A White Woman's Opinion of Black Women White women's opinion of black women & a > brother's response. Please take a moment and read this. Pretty Deep! > Thumbs up to this black man. Enjoy. > It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 > Sister magazine by a Caucasian woman who requested a > response from black > men. I'm so glad she got what she asked for (and more) > !!! > > Dear Jamie: > > I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of > your Black male readers. > > I am a White female who is engaged to a Black > male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don't > understand a lot of > Black female's attitudes about our relationship. > > My man decided he wanted me because the pickings > amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were > either too > fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too > materialistic > or carrying too much excess baggage. > > Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I > was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and > dine me and > give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about > us being with > their men, why don't they look at themselves and make > some changes. > > I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide r > emarks when we're out in public. I would like to hear > from some Black > men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them. > > Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for > one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson > Beckford, > Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry > Belafonte, > Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, > Berry Gordy, > Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes... > > I could go on and on. But, right now, I'm a > little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. > Don't be mad > with us White women because so many of your men want us. > Get your acts > together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat > your men better. > If I'm wrong, Black men, let me know. > > Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA > > RESPONSE > > > > Dear Jamie: > > I would like to respond to the letter written by > A Disgusted White Girl. > > Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old > black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious > universities in > Atlanta , Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in > Business Management. > I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently > purchased a > house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of > successful black > men. > > I will not use my precious time to slander white > people. I just want to set the record straight of why black > men date > white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons > why black men > dated white women was because they were considered easy. > > The black girls in my neighborhood were raised > in the church. They were very strict about when they lost > their > virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our > impatience to wait, > brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy > without too > much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls. > > Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date > white women because they are docile and easy to control. A > lot of black > men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall > weaknesses, have become > intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are > afraid that our > woman will be more successful than us, make more money than > us, drive > nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, > many black men > look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control. > > I have talked to numerous black men and they > continuo usly comment on how easy it is to control and walk > over their > white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want > A Disgusted > White Girl to know that not all successful black men date > white women. > > Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, > Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair > Underwood, Kenneth > 'Babyface' Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris > Rock all married strong > black women And, to flip the script, there are numerous > white men, in > and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire > black women > over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David > Bowie to name a > few. > > I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be > misinformed Stop thinking that because you are white that > you are some > type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like > Hatsepshut > and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in > Egypt, yo u > were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and > beating each other > over the head with clubs. Read your history! > > It was the black woman that taught you how to > cook and season your food. It was the black woman that > taught you how to > raise your children. It was black women who were breast > feeding and > raising your babies during slavery. > > It is the black woman that had to endure > watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, > killed, and > thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes > against them: > being black and being a woman. And, through all this, Still > They Rise! > > It is because of the black women's strength, > elegance, power, love and beauty that I could> never> > date anyone except > my black Queen. It is not just the outer beauty that > captivates and > draws me to them . It is not the fact that they come in all > shapes, > sizes, colors and shades that I love them. > > Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing > about black women. Their strong spirit, loving and > nurturing souls, > their integrity, their ability to overcome great obstacles, > their > willingness to stand for what they believe in, and their > determination > to succeed and reach their highest potential while enduring > great pain > and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black > women. > > I honestly believe that your anger is geared > more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks. If > this were > not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons > to darken your > skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't > you just be happy > with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your > lips, hips, and > breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so y ou can > look fuller > and more voluptuous? > > I think that your anger is really a result of > you wanting to have what the black woman has. > > BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile > woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give > you a call. > But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. > Someone that can > be a good wife and mother to my children. > > Someone who can be my best friend and > understands my struggles. I am looking for a soul mate. I > am looking for > a sister and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit the > bill. > > No offense taken, none given. > > Signed, Black Royalty > > > > > > Wow!! We must pass this on to make the day of > the Black Queens of our > > acquaintances! Holla at your girl! I love men period!!!! Especially my chocolate brothers and the one I am dating right now!!!!KISSY KISS
  • Well it takes two to Tango, so it's not just black men's fault, I believe some of these white women are willingly going out with black men, I don't think they all have a gun to their heads. Variety is the spice of life, we all like to try different things, that's all it is. You could also argue that when pretty girls are needed, be it on a TV show, in an advert, or in a magazine, 9 times out of 10 that void is filled by a white woman, very rarely are the black honeys put at the forefront, even the Oriental women, of which there are less of in the west, are given more limelight than black women. This could possibly be helped by black women themselves by not continually going on about either being a woman or being black all the time, just like Jada-famous-because-of-my-husband-Smith does, yes sweetheart, you're female, you're black, none of these are achievements, talk about something else for Christ's sake, and maybe you'll spend more time in the spotlight, the press are less likely to shine a light on you if they know that you're going to bore the bloody arse off them. We all like variety, not just black men, I'd wager just as many black men would want to try it on with an Oriental woman as they would with a white woman, it's all about variety.
  • Because it's different.
  • &#039;Cause those men want to. They are probably just attracted to white women. It's a preference thing. Why? Do you have something against black women? There are black women who get white guys, and even black women who get black guys.
  • Well, I know that I'm dating my guy (straight outta big mamma Africa) because he's sweet and caring and treats me wonderful, though my grandpa is racist (I'm the palest french woman you ever saw, whiter than our beloved MJ was). My guy tells me he loves my personality and my hips, lol, and skin colour was never a thought in my mind when I met him. I don't judge skin colour for two reasons: 1)It don't matter, there is good and bad no matter what colour you are, 2) my sister is biracial and it never occured to me to ever be racist. I grew up in a multicultural town, so I don't see colour as an option, just what's insisde that counts. Maybe skin colour isn't an issue for them. I don't see a point in trying to seperate it as black and white, it shouldn't matter as long as you love eachother. Sadly, me and my man have been getting racist reactions by closed-minded people on both sides of the scale. My question to you is, WHY DOES IT MATTER? Why do people take something so beautiful like love and kill it? Me and my man went to a dance and a chick pulled him away from me and told him he should be dancing with his own kind. Isn't he? Aren't we all humans? If you remove all our skins we would all be the same. You cut someone whether they are black, white, red, yellow, blue, or purple, they are gonna bleed. What is the whole pitiful race card that is being played so often? Can't we get past this bull $hi! and try to find harmony and peace for all? I know I sound like a flke but being from a multicultural family, I don't see why people can't just stop with the skin issues, makes no sense why we can't live in peace. Sorry to disturb your board, I'm just tired of interracial relationships getting beat down over B.S. Adieux, Hope
  • My mom told me that black men and white women will fuck anything moving and I find this to be true. A white woman has nothing on me from her looks, attitude, personality. They think they've gotten a prize when they get a black man but then they soon realize they got a headache...LOL! Yes I have a strong personality and I need a grown BLACK man to be able handle it because its real out here and if you can't handle it it's best you do find you a more docile woman that will cater to the bull! I don't really understand why black men put themselves and then eventually their seed (offsprings)through the madness of dealing with their white womens' racist families who will never accept their relationship. Question for all you black men who have nothing but negative things to say about myself and other black women what if your dad thought that way about your mother?
  • I just want to know why it matters, honestly? I went to a dance and some crazy chicka started yelling at me for dancing with my man, telling me I should dance with my OWN KIND... are we not all humans? Why do people always toss in skin colour issuses for everything? Why can't people just be happy regardless of where someone is from, what culture, race, society, sex, ect.... if you remove all our skin, could you tell who is who? do we not all bleed red when cut? So why do so many take something beautiful and destroy it?
  • I am dating a black man. I am caucasian, blonde with green eyes. He has dated both black, white, and mixed. I think the reasons differ from immigrants to Canadian born black males. The immgrated men tend to think of white women as a meal ticket, ego boost and may believe they can get away with poor behavior easier. The Canadian born and raised white man may like the attitude and physical looks of a white female over a black female and may still be the major bread winner. I think there definately are men of all different origins that seekout white women to use as doormats; thinking we will be more trusting, less dramatic and more forgiving of lying, cheating and manipulating than their race. So much depends on how the man was raised. I definately had to set my boyfriend straight when he was showing signs of being a dead-weight, free riding lazy ass!
  • Personally speaking, if I were to date a white woman it would be because she has a pleasant personality, and because she's attractive. I like WOMEN. PERIOD. I don't care what color she is. My WIFE, on the other hand, might take ISSUE with that position, so there won't be any dating of women of ANY color in the very near future.
  • who else find this story complete bull?? I heard a lot of bull in my life time, but never an ignorant tool as such who actually believes he is doing this for the "good of the children". B.S.! He's a racist prick and he needs to be b!#@* slapped really hard! Interracial couple denied marriage license in La. SOURCE: http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20091015/...rracial_rebuff By MARY FOSTER, Associated Press Writer Mary Foster, Associated Press Writer NEW ORLEANS – A Louisiana justice of the peace said he refused to issue a marriage license to an interracial couple out of concern for any children the couple might have. Keith Bardwell, justice of the peace in Tangipahoa Parish, says it is his experience that most interracial marriages do not last long. "I'm not a racist. I just don't believe in mixing the races that way," Bardwell told the Associated Press on Thursday. "I have piles and piles of black friends. They come to my home, I marry them, they use my bathroom. I treat them just like everyone else." Bardwell said he asks everyone who calls about marriage if they are a mixed race couple. If they are, he does not marry them, he said. Bardwell said he has discussed the topic with blacks and whites, along with witnessing some interracial marriages. He came to the conclusion that most of black society does not readily accept offspring of such relationships, and neither does white society, he said. "There is a problem with both groups accepting a child from such a marriage," Bardwell said. "I think those children suffer and I won't help put them through it." If he did an interracial marriage for one couple, he must do the same for all, he said. "I try to treat everyone equally," he said. Bardwell estimates that he has refused to marry about four couples during his career, all in the past 2 1/2 years. Beth Humphrey, 30, and 32-year-old Terence McKay, both of Hammond, say they will consult the U.S. Justice Department about filing a discrimination complaint. Humphrey, an account manager for a marketing firm, said she and McKay, a welder, just returned to Louisiana. She is white and he is black. She plans to enroll in the University of New Orleans to pursue a masters degree in minority politics. "That was one thing that made this so unbelievable," she said. "It's not something you expect in this day and age." Humphrey said she called Bardwell on Oct. 6 to inquire about getting a marriage license signed. She says Bardwell's wife told her that Bardwell will not sign marriage licenses for interracial couples. Bardwell suggested the couple go to another justice of the peace in the parish who agreed to marry them. "We are looking forward to having children," Humphrey said. "And all our friends and co-workers have been very supportive. Except for this, we're typical happy newlyweds." "It is really astonishing and disappointing to see this come up in 2009," said American Civil Liberties Union of Louisiana attorney Katie Schwartzmann. She said the Supreme Court ruled in 1967 "that the government cannot tell people who they can and cannot marry." The ACLU sent a letter to the Louisiana Judiciary Committee, which oversees the state justices of the peace, asking them to investigate Bardwell and recommending "the most severe sanctions available, because such blatant bigotry poses a substantial threat of serious harm to the administration of justice." "He knew he was breaking the law, but continued to do it," Schwartzmann said. According to the clerk of court's office, application for a marriage license must be made three days before the ceremony because there is a 72-hour waiting period. The applicants are asked if they have previously been married. If so, they must show how the marriage ended, such as divorce. Other than that, all they need is a birth certificate and Social Security card. The license fee is $35, and the license must be signed by a Louisiana minister, justice of the peace or judge. The original is returned to the clerk's office. "I've been a justice of the peace for 34 years and I don't think I've mistreated anybody," Bardwell said. "I've made some mistakes, but you have too. I didn't tell this couple they couldn't get married. I just told them I wouldn't do it."
  • why do so may white men like to date black women? the grass is greener on the other side of the fence
  • So they can find them at night
  • Because they are wise enough to see past skin color and just enjoy their partner for who they are.
  • Because any man luuuuuv beautiful women!!!! +4
  • I am going to list two of the reasons that as a black man I like white women. 1. They have different features than me. 2. I get more positive responses. Ex: I am an average guy in looks but I keep fit and groomed. Most of the black women who agree to date me are usually the ones who are overweight, have multiple children, looking for guy to spoil them financially, and art extremely religious. However the white women who agree to date me are the type who are slender to medium built, have one or no children, and are willing to go 50/50 or are not expecting me to shower them with gifts, and are closer to my own spiritual path. Not to say I have not met black women who fit what I wanted , but they were not attracted to me whether I was simply not their type, they were not interested in men, or they were already taken. Just two of my reasons.
  • In my area the ratio between single black men and sinlge white men is very large, with four black man for every one white man. Also the ratio between single white women and single black women is even higher, with being 1 black women for every 1oo white women. Now ask again how in my hometown while their is of course a lot of black man daiting white women.
  • Maybe they smell better? Who the hell cares.
  • I've talked to a few black guys about this and they said mainly its because society puts white women on a pedestal and so black men think a white woman is like having a trophy. They also said that white women are easier to malipulate and they aren't as sassy as black women and pretty much do what they say to do so they are easier to control. I am a black woman and normally I have noticed that white women are more passive so maybe that's why.
  • History has nothing to do it. It could be because they grew up in place where the population is mostly white. I'm black and i date white and hispanic women. Where I'm from you will hardly see black men dating white women.
  • there is many possible reasons . i could be stereotypical and say they suck dick better which leads to plies song becky . or that society &media say white women are the "most beautiful" &the media really effects people. or they could be afraid of an aggressive woman and want someone passive. there is many possible answers, but when it comes down to it race doesn't matter when in a relationship you should be more interested in the persons personality u don't see their color. i'm black and my boyfriends white &i'm with him because i'm attracted to him physically &emotionally . though people on here need to stop saying white women or mixed look better , trust , i'm dark skinned &i pull all types of men (white, mexican, black, samoan, asian, pacific islander) it depends on the man .
  • Personal preference.
  • Questions like these give me a massive headache...
  • When i was in the Navy, we were having a party one night, whites and blacks. The white guys asked the black guys and we concluded that "black women are too bitchy" and black guys don't want that. That is what all the black guys were in agreement to.
  • Men of all races love to date blonde white women. Because we're hot. of course we love black men because there sexy and have huge cocks and can fuck real good. I''m a very beautiful very fair skinned very white white woman with very beautiful very long very blonde(almost white) hair that is longer than I am tall, very bright very light blue eyes, killer body, natural F cup boobs, always dress all in pink, wear glasses, and I have always loved dark sexy black men the darker the better and they love me. I'm married to and have 2 kids with a very dark black man who is the darkest black man I have ever seen. Of course its not just black men who tell me I'm the hottest girl they've ever seen. Guys of all races including white men who know I love black men tell me I'm the hottest girl they have ever seen. I have 3 sisters who have very long very blonde hair bright blue eyes and very fair skin like I do and always get told how hot they are by men of all races and like me love black men. Black men are the sexiest men and blonde hair blue eyed white women the sexiest women which is why you always see so many beautiful natural blonde blue eyed white girls with dark sexy black men.
  • I dunno. But it leaves me a whole lotta hot Black Girls open for dating!

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